What do you think?

[foreverhanging]

I am going on a hen do in June - it's in Spain and I've been told we're going for a night out at a well known restaurant and I need a 'nice' outfit. The people I'm going with are effortlessly glamorous and slim.

I am not very confident anymore and I have recently being trying to break out of my 'buy big jumpers and jeggings' to wear every day. I realised that my wardrobe is almost exclusively 3 plain colours. I've been buying printed things and dresses to try and spice things up a bit but I have real body issues in that I'm probably about 4-5 stone overweight after having dd and I'm not happy. I am losing weight but I'll never lose enough before June. I've been trying to find said 'nice' outfit, I just wondered if people thought this was nice, or frumpy? It is a totally rubbish description on it and I assume it comes without the belt. I do like the belt so I'd have to buy one separately I guess.

www.boohoo.com/plus-leopard-midi-dress/PZZ79996.html

@FleurNancy oh I hope it does! Quite a bargain!

Ugh, those curves on a child free night in Spain! So jealous!

Ha thank you! @AnneTwackie !

I just wanted to come on and say you look lovely in that dress. It's super flattering and you definitely don't look 4.5 stone overweight. I hope you can feel comfortable in it and have a lovely time away.

I'd go with whichever shoes are the most comfortable, your current ones look fine....

You look fantastic in it!

You look lovely, very stylish.

You look amazing in that dress!

Thank you so much, all of you. I was so worried about this hen do - I've really lost myself after having dd - I had pnd and I put on so much weight and it's really shaken me. You've all given me so much confidence.

I find it impossible to believe you are 3 stone overweight in that dress. You have such a good shape.

I've just ordered it. What size did you order? I ask because you said you could have sized down so wa that because they're big fitting or just that you over sized yourself?
You look absolutely fabulous in it!

It isn't massively big, but it's got a stretchy waist so if I'd got a smaller size it would have been a bit tighter. But then I do wonder if I would have actually fit through it!

Thank you @woodcutbirds I'm hoping it translates to real life!! Haha

My dress arrived today and I love it.

That’s a really gorgeous outfit!

I think if you lost 4/5 stone you’d look unwell! You look really beautiful! Don’t do yourself down.

Your outfit is lush, have a great time.

Another one who thinks u look great - very flattering dress, you don’t look like you weigh 14.5 stone! Do u mind me asking how tall you are? I might get that dress!

Looks gorgeous on you. Have a great time

You look lovely and def not 4/( stone overweight .
Be kind to yourself and enjoy your holiday

Another one saying you look great OP.

Thank you everyone! I recently discovered I'm 5'6 after thinking I was 5'7 for years haha.

I'm going to really try and not feel bad about myself!

@foreverhanging - I recently discovered I am 5.3 after thinking I was 5.4 for years, so I know how you're feeling.
In my head I'm still 5.4.

Wish me luck everyone, hen do is next week!