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My Husband Has Left

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disneygirl26 · 31/03/2019 21:59

4 weeks ago when I came back off holiday my husband told me he's not in love with me anymore and was going back to his dad's. He had taken most of his clothes out of the wardrobe but has left anything valuable and sentimental, left his shoes etc. When I ask him what he wants to do with his stuff or what is going on he wouldn't answer me. He's been hot and cold, for the first 2 weeks of our split he text me, called me to see how I was and saw me a couple of times a week and we would talk and make progress but then something changed, in the last 2 weeks he has said he'll see me and when I recommend dates/times he wouldn't reply. He says he'll call then doesn't but if you call him he wouldn't answer. He's said he's considering coming home. If I say he's sending mixed messages he says he isn't and yesterday text me to say he's happier without me and 100% with his decision and he's ignored me because he's annoyed that no one believes that this is the right decision. We've been together for 7 years but only married for 10 months and before this happened he didn't give any inclining he wasn't happy. The day before he did this he'd even got for breakfast with my dad talking about booking me a holiday for my birthday and 2 weeks before we had a normal Valentine's Day. I'm so confused about what to do! If I don't talk to him he finds a reason why I've annoyed him and if I talk to him he says I've annoyed him and ignores me anyway!

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Palominoo · 07/04/2019 14:18

Well don't inflame the situation by talking about meeting other men no matter how platonic the relationship is.

Get it all done and dusted as quickly as possible and move on.

mummmy2017 · 07/04/2019 16:18

Every man who said he won't take half has lied.
Gear up for a fight once he gets bitter.

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