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I have epilepsy, ask me anything about living with it

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eggwyneth · 25/09/2026 00:23

I have epilepsy, ask me anything. Anything at all!

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Chaosatcollege · 25/09/2026 00:43

Are you medicated? How often do you have seizures and what types?

How long does it take you to recover from seizures and what helps you to recover faster?

How do you behave differently because of your epilepsy eg avoiding certain situations?

cambiodenombre123 · 25/09/2026 03:05

What diagnosis do you have and when were you diagnosed?

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:00

My husband is epileptic, starting with tonic clonic seizures really late in life.

Do you have a partner, do they witness your seizures, does it disturb them?

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:05

What anti seizure medication are you on?

Have you tried more than one?

My OH is a different man altogether on Briviact after lamotrigine (gave him heart problems) and leviteracetam (failed to control seizures) but it's expensive and the NHS can try to avoid you knowing about it.

eggwyneth · 26/09/2026 00:28

Chaosatcollege · 25/09/2026 00:43

Are you medicated? How often do you have seizures and what types?

How long does it take you to recover from seizures and what helps you to recover faster?

How do you behave differently because of your epilepsy eg avoiding certain situations?

Yes I'm medicated. I'm on cenobamate & lamotrigine currently but have been on oxcarbazepine and briviact before.

My seizures are focal impaired awareness and don't really have a set timing or frequency because they're usually triggered by high emotions.

If I'm at home I try and go to sleep and I'll feel better when I wake up, otherwise it's a bit of a struggle to try and recover. I'd say the biggest thing I try to avoid is public transport, my parents still drive me lots of places which I'm really grateful for

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eggwyneth · 26/09/2026 00:28

cambiodenombre123 · 25/09/2026 03:05

What diagnosis do you have and when were you diagnosed?

I'm diagnosed with epilepsy and I was diagnosed at 10, a year after I started having seizures.

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eggwyneth · 26/09/2026 00:30

Imdunfer · 25/09/2026 20:05

What anti seizure medication are you on?

Have you tried more than one?

My OH is a different man altogether on Briviact after lamotrigine (gave him heart problems) and leviteracetam (failed to control seizures) but it's expensive and the NHS can try to avoid you knowing about it.

Cenobamate and lamotrigine have worked best for me although the lamotrigine does trigger bad headaches. Briviact was absolutely horrible.

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Ohthatsabitshit · 26/09/2026 01:27

How did BRIVIACT make you feel?
Do you have an alert dog?

IndigoBluey · 26/09/2026 01:30

do you know when you are about to have a seizure? What does a seizure feel like or do you not know it is happening? Thanks for started a really important thread too.

Imdunfer · 26/09/2026 08:47

eggwyneth · 26/09/2026 00:30

Cenobamate and lamotrigine have worked best for me although the lamotrigine does trigger bad headaches. Briviact was absolutely horrible.

I'm sorry you haven't got a side effect free solution.

TurmericTansy · 26/09/2026 08:48

Do you have children? How does the epilepsy impact on your ability to care for them?

eggwyneth · 26/09/2026 09:16

Ohthatsabitshit · 26/09/2026 01:27

How did BRIVIACT make you feel?
Do you have an alert dog?

Briviact made my mental health awful, made me feel horrible and unmotivated and I just couldn't do anything. I don't have a dog but I do have a budgie who can tell when I have seizures because he starts chirping super loud!

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eggwyneth · 26/09/2026 09:19

IndigoBluey · 26/09/2026 01:30

do you know when you are about to have a seizure? What does a seizure feel like or do you not know it is happening? Thanks for started a really important thread too.

Lots of people do know when they're about to have one but I don't, I don't get any sort of feeling before it. My seizures are triggered by strong emotions so I can sort of predict when they might happen - after a busy day, if I've been travelling, that sort of thing, but I don't get a warning right before.

I'm unconscious during my seizures so I'm not really sure how it feels but the whole process does make me feel sick.

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ThisHappyPlayer · 30/09/2026 12:52

Would you be able to explain a bit more about your response to Briviact please? Our 4 year old (diagnosed with focal epilepsy) is on Levitracetam but is extremely aggressive. We’ve asked for him to be moved to Briviact. But he is so young that trying to get him to explain how he feels with the epilepsy and / or in response to medication is just not possible. Your experience would give us some helpful insight.

Apacketofbiscuitsaday · 30/09/2026 13:21

Do you have any other diagnoses alongside your epilepsy?

HangryBrickShark · 30/09/2026 13:23

Did you have a head injury prior to getting epilepsy?

BooseysMom · 07/11/2026 21:56

eggwyneth · 26/09/2026 00:28

I'm diagnosed with epilepsy and I was diagnosed at 10, a year after I started having seizures.

DS is the same. He's 13 next week. He had vacant episodes for a year before the first full tonic clinic seizure happened out of the blue about a year ago. It was awful to see. He was started on Kepra (Leveritacetum) but it didn't work, now he's up to the full dose (150mg) Lamotrigine and it's controlled. He missed the pills one evening and had a small seizure the next day. He came out of it quickly though when the paramedic put an oxygen mask over his mouth. We have to go to hospital every time it happens. When we see the consultant he always mentions sudden death in epilepsy and it scares the shit out of me. He's my one and only. I just read a thread of a 14 yr old drying of this and I felt a stabbing sensation of sickness and nerves run through me. I can't get my head round this. I mean, how can this happen? We always know if he's about to have a tonic clonic seizure as he is vacant for a while leading up to it but if that bit didn't happen, how would we know?

Can I ask how old you are? Are your seizures under control now?

eggwyneth · 07/11/2026 21:59

BooseysMom · 07/11/2026 21:56

DS is the same. He's 13 next week. He had vacant episodes for a year before the first full tonic clinic seizure happened out of the blue about a year ago. It was awful to see. He was started on Kepra (Leveritacetum) but it didn't work, now he's up to the full dose (150mg) Lamotrigine and it's controlled. He missed the pills one evening and had a small seizure the next day. He came out of it quickly though when the paramedic put an oxygen mask over his mouth. We have to go to hospital every time it happens. When we see the consultant he always mentions sudden death in epilepsy and it scares the shit out of me. He's my one and only. I just read a thread of a 14 yr old drying of this and I felt a stabbing sensation of sickness and nerves run through me. I can't get my head round this. I mean, how can this happen? We always know if he's about to have a tonic clonic seizure as he is vacant for a while leading up to it but if that bit didn't happen, how would we know?

Can I ask how old you are? Are your seizures under control now?

I'm 20, I've been on lamotrigine & keppra before too. My seizures are semi controlled, they aren't constant like before and are now only triggered by things like lack of sleep or high emotions.

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eggwyneth · 07/11/2026 22:01

ThisHappyPlayer · 30/09/2026 12:52

Would you be able to explain a bit more about your response to Briviact please? Our 4 year old (diagnosed with focal epilepsy) is on Levitracetam but is extremely aggressive. We’ve asked for him to be moved to Briviact. But he is so young that trying to get him to explain how he feels with the epilepsy and / or in response to medication is just not possible. Your experience would give us some helpful insight.

I was on briviact for a very short period of time. It did reduce my seizures but didn't stop them, and it really impacted my mental health, in a very negative way. I was taking it during a bereavement and being in my first relationship, sitting exams and so it all got too much and I had to come off it

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eggwyneth · 07/11/2026 22:02

Apacketofbiscuitsaday · 30/09/2026 13:21

Do you have any other diagnoses alongside your epilepsy?

I'm not diagnosed with anything else no, but as a child I had a tracheostomy tube which impacted my voice box, my medication for epilepsy has also impacted my voice

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cheapskatemum · 07/11/2026 22:13

Thank you for this AMA. DS2 is non verbal; was diagnosed ASD at 2yo, bi polar disorder at 15yo and developed epilepsy as an adult. Obviously, he can’t tell us how his medications make him feel

Have you put on weight as a result of taking epilepsy medication?

Cattyisbatty · 07/11/2026 22:41

Me too! What are your main symptoms? Do you get the déjà vu/rising nausea? It’s truly horrible. I usually pass out and/or am sick afterwards too.

i was only diagnosed in my early 50s first focal awareness was aged 48. So weird.

i’m quite nervous about going back to driving if I’m seizure free for a year - will be next July. Have you managed this at all, if you ever drove. I’d only drive local/short journeys anyway.

Bennybannsider2 · 07/11/2026 22:52

Can you describe the side effects of your medication?

My 16 yr old is on leveceteram 1000mg but still having (infrequent) seizures. He's overweight and sometimes angry, but he's a teenage boy so I'm not sure I can blame it all on the tsblets. I'd love him to be able to learn to drive.

Imdunfer · 08/11/2026 07:56

BooseysMom · 07/11/2026 21:56

DS is the same. He's 13 next week. He had vacant episodes for a year before the first full tonic clinic seizure happened out of the blue about a year ago. It was awful to see. He was started on Kepra (Leveritacetum) but it didn't work, now he's up to the full dose (150mg) Lamotrigine and it's controlled. He missed the pills one evening and had a small seizure the next day. He came out of it quickly though when the paramedic put an oxygen mask over his mouth. We have to go to hospital every time it happens. When we see the consultant he always mentions sudden death in epilepsy and it scares the shit out of me. He's my one and only. I just read a thread of a 14 yr old drying of this and I felt a stabbing sensation of sickness and nerves run through me. I can't get my head round this. I mean, how can this happen? We always know if he's about to have a tonic clonic seizure as he is vacant for a while leading up to it but if that bit didn't happen, how would we know?

Can I ask how old you are? Are your seizures under control now?

Our consultant says he has a legal requirement to mention SUDEP, please try not to worry about it. They want to scare people into not having a bath alone or using power tools, they don't mean you to be scared he will actually drop dead at any moment.

Lamotrigine dropped my husband's blood pressure, make sure they or you check your boy. Leviteracetam made him so angry and anxious he couldn't function, then he fitted anyway so now he's on Briviact and it's fabulous for him, touch wood a perfect fit for whatever is wrong with him.

You have all my sympathy witnessing tonic clonic seizures. My god they're scary, aren't they? My DH has his first at 71 years old, from nowhere.

eggwyneth · 08/11/2026 09:45

cheapskatemum · 07/11/2026 22:13

Thank you for this AMA. DS2 is non verbal; was diagnosed ASD at 2yo, bi polar disorder at 15yo and developed epilepsy as an adult. Obviously, he can’t tell us how his medications make him feel

Have you put on weight as a result of taking epilepsy medication?

No I haven't, but I did have trouble eating on Briviact so lost weight.

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