I’m a Cam Girl AMA.

[CammyAnnie]

Since becoming a cam girl I have noticed a lot of people are very stereotypical. So interested to know what people want to know about us.

Not for me. The beauty of being on cam is that I can choose when I go on, how long for. I can just decide not to go on for a week if I wanted to. I don’t need to go through any interview process and I work for myself to earn as much as I want to all from the comfort of my home. An extra 300+ a week take home by being dat chatting to men rather than watching telly in the evening is a decent chunk of fun money for me 😅

I personally would be too terrified of someone I know logging on!

Do you have a loyal following or is it more random?

It’s mostly random although I do have a handful of regulars who tend to log on every time I’m online.

It did scare me at first. But I know of women who have been doing it for 15+ years and have never been found out

This might be the most mysoginistic and misandrest thing over ever read.

Your second paragraph is insane. Men don't go out and assault women because they are horny. Rape is about power and control.

Men who think all women are the same, as in, sex objects - have disordered personalities. That has nothing to do with women. They hate women and mean them harm so they devalue them in their minds.

Most people are perfectly capable of not acting on impulse. Men aren't dogs. They have higher thought just like us and don't decide all women are sluts because cam girls exist. If they do, its because there's something fundamentally wrong with them. Not because some women flash their tits.

Honestly, sorry to derail op. But the outdatedness of some people's responses are horrifying.

I’d definitely agree with the last three. It’s hardly something you could proudly put on your cv.

I think that's a bit disingenuous. It's not just you logging on to chat wearing whatever you were wearing at work, plus the remnants of your child's dinner. You say yourself you wear heavy makeup for your cam stints and style your hair differently to the way you usually wear it, and presumably there's a certain amount of body maintenance/presentation/ hair removal etc involved in advance of a session of sitting astride a vibrator in your scanties, all of which takes up time and effort? No, you're not interviewing, or committing to specific hours, but it's not entirely without preparation, surely?

Why not?

Because on the average CV, 'Cam girl 2022-2024: relevant skills, pretending to masturbate in my pants while flirting' isn't going to hit a high note?

Presumably it's all about presentation.

'In my last longterm employment, I found myself very capable at capturing the attentions of clients and holding them enthralled. I placed particular attention on growing my client base for the buisness and was infinitely successful. I received excellent feedback from customers who regularly said I was prompt, imaginative and got the required results within appropriate timeframes. Capable of working on my own steam and work well with others'.

What would you say is most unpleasant aspect of the work?
What do you think might make you want to stop doing it? (2 similar but separate questions)
Thank you!

That has cracked me up slightly. Possibly because I'm imagining an interviewer picking up on this in an interview, and saying 'Very interesting -- can you elaborate on exactly what this role involved?'

'Primarily acting, a little bit of voice work. Whatever my clients required. I consider myself reasonably adaptable and, flexible. Dependant on wage of course. Though, looking to branch into...what is it you do here? Horticulture? I'd imagine that requires more layers of clothing than what I'm used to. But I promise to bring my can do attitude with me, along with my sweater'.

😆

Do you complete a tax return and pay tax on this income?

I would guess at 40% of the camming I do is primarily filling a lonely void for these men. Some are widowed, some terminal, some just lack confidence and want someone they can act confident to.

This is sad. I don’t think I would feel comfortable taking money from lonely people. I wish there were more social support services.

I had an elaboration going on somewhere in my head about the OP's position on below-the-waist nudity and a can-do attitude to dealing with thistles...

What I make varies massively but usually between 300 and 500 a week.

Do you declare the income/pay tax on it?

Definitely the people. You never really know who you’re talking to and I’ve had some people attempt to make conversation that sounds quite taboo and I do worry about what people might say. You can’t unhear, or unread some things and it does play on my mind.

Yes I do. I save 30% of everything I make to pay tax.

Have you ever been attracted to any of your clients?

I’m an idealist and staunch feminist with daughters so maybe we’re not on the same page. I have nothing against you as a person and reserve my disgust for these creeps. But do you think the world would be a better place if women just point blank refused to indulge men in their fantasies for money?

@CammyAnnie thank you. So I guess the people is the answer to both the worst bit and why you might leave.

Can I also ask, how would you feel if your husband did camming? And if he wanted to do it with you?

You’ve hit the nail on the head. I’d rather my daughter have self respect too.

Disappointing how many other women are suggesting you don't have self respect for doing cam work OP. It works for you and your lifestyle, you do you! You have your boundaries and are fundamentally not responsible for the actions of men contrary to previous posters.

Yes I do. I save 30% of everything I make to pay tax.

So it's £200 a week net, not £300. And it's still worthwhile??

The interactive vibrator - does that mean you are stimulated and there do or could orgasm? If that was with every client it would be rather tiring and leave nothing for your DH?