I’m a Cam Girl AMA.

[CammyAnnie]

Since becoming a cam girl I have noticed a lot of people are very stereotypical. So interested to know what people want to know about us.

You seem very angry about women working in this way. I couldn’t do it but would in no way judge women for doing whatever they want or need to do to make money. I wish it didn’t exist because women could make enough money in other ways but it does and it’s not in any way a reflection of the worth of the women.
Maybe YOU could let women call themselves whatever they want (including cam girls) rather than policing their language…

@Jane2025 yeah I suppose it is a bizarre response lol but reading the word prostitute in nearly every sentence made me laugh tbh it reminded me of when my kids were little and they were trying to explain something to me and kept using the same word over and over again as if they were being sponsored by that word lol

How old is your mum?
Do you think that her being so open about sex has made you more likely to do this work?
Does she know you do it?
What does she say?

And this is why you’re called plain Jane and I am not.

I’m not going to sit here and spend my time writing out responses to your insults masked as questions I’m afraid.

You could have just called me a whore and saved so much time of everyone’s time 😂

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Now if you don’t mind, I’m going to prostitution myself online then book us a holiday to the Maldives to get over all this grief.

Yes it does, it’s made me realise how unfaithful some people are.

there are men that log on while their partners are in the shower/bath, just gone up to bed, sat in the car before they go home. Any chance they get they’re on there and it’s pretty disgusting.

I haven’t ignored this I’ve already explained it’s very variable, some weeks are better than others. I could make £300 in a night, or I could make nothing at all.

No, no pleasure. But I do it for the money rather than a kink like being seen by many.

Sometimes I’ll come across someone with an interesting job or hobby, or an interest in common so then the conversation is more interesting. But I wouldn’t call that pleasure 😂

My mum is 56.
She knows, she wasn’t overly pleased when I told her. She, like @Jane2025 was rather cynical about the whole thing. But she feels better knowing I don’t show any below belt nudity and basically just flirt with men for money. 😂

I am horrified that in a marriage this is the way that someone tops up their income. Did your husband not think of doing some thing to bring in more money? If my husband agreed to my stripping off for complete strangers for extra money for our family then I would think a hell of a lot less off him.

£200 a week to talk to men online and pretend to masturbate while your 4yo daughter is in bed and your husband is downstairs?

Surely universal credit would be better if you’re struggling financially? It would at least preserve your dignity.

Your husband could be downstairs chatting with a cam “girl” he finds interesting and attractive while you’re upstairs doing the same with a man.
Do you think you have a strong marriage?

Hi OP. Do you foresee a time when you'll be too old to do this - or is there a market for middle-aged and beyond cam models?

We don’t qualify for universal credit. You don’t think I tried that first? Desperate times call for desperate measures I’m afraid 😂

For myself yes definitely. I wouldn’t want to be doing this past 40. Although I’ve seen women in their 70’s doing it so I think it’s personal preference.

It was my choice. My husband used to do work on the side, and occasionally still does. But his work on the side means he’s away from home for long periods of time. He was leaving for work at 5am before the kids were awake, and getting home at 11pm/12, he would just never see the kids during the week and my eldest started to cry most days asking if daddy was still home and that she missed him. He also got quite down about missing the kids.

He does still do some work on the side, but he doesn’t have to and it means we’re all at home together at a reasonable time, we get to have dinner together, watch a movie. The kids and he are much happier, which in turn makes me happy.

Curious thread. You do seem to underplay it, you are not just flirting with men for money, and you took serious issue with ot being called prostitution, which I suspect uou know it is.

which makes me wonder, are you as ok with it, as you are making out?

There’s always potential that anyone could be unfaithful.

We have a very strong marriage. I’m very lucky to have the husband I do. We are mostly always on the same page. Disagreements get discussed. Arguments end in apologies from both sides, he cooks, cleans, works hard, is a decent father who doesn’t use weaponised incompetence to get out of housework or being a father like some men I read about on MN.

I honestly couldn’t fault him.

I didn’t take an issue with it being called prostitution. I can agree that the stereotypical aspect of it absolutely is a form of prostitution.
I took issue with the degrading and offensive way the poster disguised their disgust for my work as questions and then proceeded to have the pure audacity to twist her own tactics on other posters.

Obviously, with the type of work that it is there will always be concerns. I am OK with it now. But I am fully aware of the implications that could potentially come back from it.

To be fair though, a lot of people do find prostitution distasteful, and I think uou need to accept that, if you come on to a public forum and tell folks this is how you earn your money, and more your husband I guess helps you spend it, and you’ve young kids who will find out at some point, it compounds it.

you said basically you flirted for money, you don’t. You also tried to stress about 40 percent of it was non sexual. Again trying to down play it. You also say no one has recognised you, this is highly unlikely, they simply haven’t said it to your face.

the reality is you perform sexual acts for men for money. Or watch them perform sexual acts. And if you and your husband are happy to get money this way, then that’s fine.

Do you feel nervous turning the camera on or does it come quite natural?