When I was 18 I was in a relationship with a man 20 years older than me...AMA

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It was a genuine, loving relationship that lasted nearly 2 years. Please no nasty comments!

@blueskys72 you were a child and lived with a former teacher who was 37 years older than you? As in a relationship? My parents are only 24/25 years older than me😐

@Pandacub7 No, he was 37!

@blueskys72 ah okay but that still sounds like grooming. You were a child and he was in a position of power, former or current teacher.

How did you meet him op?

Do you not think it's weird that a man of that age would want to go out with a teenager? I mean surely he would have a lot of people talking about him and not saying the nicest of things.. When I was 18 I went out with a 25 year old and he was really funny about the age gap and me being a lot younger than him. Not that it bothered me! But I think being the older one there is more of a responsibility to not take advantage of younger people because you do have the upper hand and the 18yr old wouldn't necessarily understand that. Even though everyone thinks they are so grown up at 18, when you get to 35 you realise 18 is still very young and immature.

I was in a relationship with a man 20 years older when I was 19.
I was devastated when it ended after three years.
It was love at first sight for me. We are still in touch. Both of us are married now, so there is nothing going on. He still makes my heart skip a beat though, can't help that.
He's 63 now and he is still as handsome as the day I first saw him.

no ones asking her anything!!....

This is probably the first AMA that hasn't gone to plan
It's just not that interesting OP as others have similar stories, it's not a rare thing!

What a disgusting man
The question is: what kinda childhood did he have to become such a pervert?

@sawollya

Oh come on. 38 and 18? Pervert.

If I'd have met my now Partner before I met my EXH I would've been 18 and he would've been 36. Honestly I wish I had met him all those years ago!!