I used to be “ugly” now I’m “pretty”

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A big diet and a lot of fillers/boobs/Botox

Fire away

Do you enjoy the male attention (assuming that's the case)?

Can you post before and afters?

Not sure how your title links to botox and a boob job. There are people with and without those things who are both "ugly" and "pretty".

Anyway. Do you also spend a lot of time on make up, fake tan, eyelash extensions, hair extensions etc? Do you do the whole instagram black eyebrows bleached hair orange skin thing? Or do you go make up free?

I agree with @Preggosaurus9 that “ A big diet and a lot of fillers/boobs/Botox“ doesn’t really make the difference between “pretty” and “ugly”.

Do you think it’s more of a self-perception and self-confidence thing.

Forgot the “?”

Do you enjoy the male attention (assuming that's the case)?

I won’t lie, at first I absolutely loved it! It was great feeling “wanted” but the novelty wore off extremely quickly and it actually gets bloody annoying having men coming up to you or trying to flirt when I’m just trying to go about my business in peace. I’m a massive people pleaser as well so I hate saying no to people and the whole thing now just makes me feel anxious.

As a guy i wouldn't think anyone with fillers/boobs/Botox would be good looking, most of them look weird

You would have no idea with well done fillers or Botox. The people who look weird are the ones you notice.

Can I ask how much weight you lost? Also, how do you feel now you feel you're 'pretty'? Also, lol, is it alot of upkeep with botox and such?

How old are you?

Just to clarify I am absolutely not saying that you need boobs/Botox to be pretty! It’s just what I needed to make myself look better and I genuinely believe I do. I don’t think I’ve gone over the top with it and I paid an awful lot of money to go to someone who could achieve a natural look.

For those asking for pics I’m not going to upload them to this thread for obvious reasons but I’m happy to PM!

Did you feel you had to have Botox and fillers or was it for yourself?

I lost 3 and a half stone (could do with losing some more but it was “enough” to make me look presentable).

The upkeep is a lot to be honest, keeping on top of my new hair, tan, eyelash extensions, Botox, filler is a lot more time consuming than I expected!

I am 28

How do you know you're now pretty/more attractive than you were? Is it the male attention you are now getting that makes you think you are?

IME, truly strikingly beautiful women are seldom told by other women that they are.

I didn’t feel I had to, although it’s considered very normal where I’m from so I suppose there is a jumping on the bandwagon element to it.

How do you know you're now pretty/more attractive than you were? Is it the male attention you are now getting that makes you think you are?

Because I look in the mirror and quite like the way I look now. The male attention is just an extra, although I suppose it does reinforce my opinion. I wouldn’t describe myself as strikingly beautiful, more “conventionally attractive” I’m definitely more of an 8/10 than a 10/10.

28 and having Botox! Was that because of your weight loss, OP?

You don't need fillers and botox at 28! Your facial muscles will wither away and then you will need thrm.

I was lucky in that my face wasn’t massively affected by my weight loss, the Botox was to even out my lopsidedness and get rid of my resting bitch face.

. Do you actually look pretty or do you just feel prettier. Whenever I look at any women with fillers etc I never think 'pretty' . I just think 'sad'. Sorry.

I do think the Botox has made a massive difference in terms of my approachability as I don’t go walk round frowning constantly anymore.

I'm quite fond of my resting bitch face! Maybe you need that back to ward off the male attention :o

But I'm not meaning to be snarky, I am interested. What do the boobs feel like and is there a downside to having bigger ones? Do women treat you differently as well as men?

Congratulations on your 3 1/2 stone loss. How did you lose your weight?

Congratulations on the weight loss! Thats fantastic! Well I hope you're happy and enjoy this new chapter