Q, non binary male MEP says rape is a spectrum and has been demonised.

Yeah the gay "incel" is more like the jaded gay guy who is sick of meaningless hookups and is looking for a deeper emotional connections. Or the young gay guy who purposely avoids easy sex. because he is emotionally vulnerable and is looking for love and fears being exploited.

There are similarities to straight male incels, but it is quite different too. Loving men is not easy.

As for Mr Minivan he is playing the latest version of the arty emotional lefty bloke who can pull women very easily, but is arguably often more of a nightmare than a straight forward guy. It is a very attractive type of man, they can be amazing people, but also they can be self centred sexist jerks who lead young women round in circles while making them feel at fault because they are great talkers. I mean the nonbinary thing is the latest scam these type of guys will use to make themselves seem more interesting than they are. At least with a guy who is obsessed with ww2. trains or football you know where you stand.