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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Full Council Chaos. Bristol City Council refusing to implement single sex services

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LoudDeer · 15/07/2026 08:47

Last night at the full council meeting women asking questions about BCC's refusal to implement the law was met with heckling from the gallery and a nonsensical word salad from council officials.

Somehow the number of questions, and goodness knows what other personal details, was leaked from within the Council offices and fed to far left activists who put out a call for attendance online. At least 100 turned up and abused and harrassed members of the public while they were speaking. At one point they were shouting at a questioners to sit down. No action was taken by council officials to maintain order.

As they left, women were met with heckling, chanting and shouting outside the building from more far left activists. The atmosphere was intimidating and abusive.

Please note, the Council agenda that evening held an item on a city wide commitment to ending VAWG. Harrassment and abuse was happening right in front of them and they not only initiated this spectacle but supported it.

Women are not safe in Bristol.

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TheignT · 17/07/2026 15:28

Talkinpeace · 16/07/2026 21:28

Pretty much all gyms and leisure centres now have locker rooms and showers on a single sex basis.
It works.

Does it? Quiet time you go off to an unstaffed changing room, back them the cubicles in view and hearing of lifeguard. I know where I felt safer at a quiet time.

TheignT · 17/07/2026 15:31

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 16/07/2026 23:24

The claim was that unisex changing rooms are cheaper to run than single sex. This is often repeated but I’ve never seen any evidence that it’s true.

Most single sex changing rooms have a few cubicles available as well as a common changing area so everyone has a choice.

The risk of voyeurism and sexual assault is drastically reduced, it’s no more expensive, is more space efficient and you can have your cubicle (in the correct sex changing room obvs). The vast majority of people catered for. That’s a win win I’d say.

You referred to a large open-plan changing room. No thanks.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 17/07/2026 15:56

TheignT · 17/07/2026 15:31

You referred to a large open-plan changing room. No thanks.

Try reading my post again. You might not have seen the ‘show quote history’ link on quoted posts. It’s really helpful as it lets you check back on what people have actually said if you are not sure. You don’t even have to scroll back pages.

Here you go:

In fact you might find that a large open plan single sex space with a handful of cubicles is quicker to clean than 30 individual unisex cubicles

TheignT · 17/07/2026 16:33

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 17/07/2026 15:56

Try reading my post again. You might not have seen the ‘show quote history’ link on quoted posts. It’s really helpful as it lets you check back on what people have actually said if you are not sure. You don’t even have to scroll back pages.

Here you go:

In fact you might find that a large open plan single sex space with a handful of cubicles is quicker to clean than 30 individual unisex cubicles

Sorry I don't want that. I've been to pools like that, always queues waiting for cubicles and to be honest I don't want to see naked bodies while I'm waiting. Enough cubicles for everyone.

nicepotoftea · 17/07/2026 16:45

I think there are pros and cons to both options, but a lot of the time it just comes down to cubicles taking up more space.

TheignT · 17/07/2026 16:48

As a teenager I was sexually harassed by a naked woman in a changing room. Not an experience I want to repeat.

Brainworm · 17/07/2026 18:12

I just had a trans identified male show up on my social media feed doing a piece to camera.

He claimed to be from Trans Pride and pronounced he was attending the Bristol City meeting but ‘was not interested in a county council’s interpretation of the guidance, I’m interested in a legal interpretation of the guidance’.

So he’s interested in a legal interpretation on the guidance produced as an explanation of the law. I’m struggling to get my head around that!

I think most of the traction is around claims that the guidance is based on the EA2010 only and is in direct conflict with other laws.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 17/07/2026 18:20

TheignT · 17/07/2026 16:48

As a teenager I was sexually harassed by a naked woman in a changing room. Not an experience I want to repeat.

Your unacceptable experience is very unusual. The majority of sex offending, around 98%, is perpetrated by men. The Sunday Times did a load of FOIs and proved that mixed-sex changing rooms are more dangerous for women, and it was sufficiently credible a study that the bastion of reaction right-wing thinking that is the... [rereads notes and looks puzzled]... Independent reported on it.

"A bad thing happened to me once" isn't data.

nicepotoftea · 17/07/2026 18:23

Brainworm · 17/07/2026 18:12

I just had a trans identified male show up on my social media feed doing a piece to camera.

He claimed to be from Trans Pride and pronounced he was attending the Bristol City meeting but ‘was not interested in a county council’s interpretation of the guidance, I’m interested in a legal interpretation of the guidance’.

So he’s interested in a legal interpretation on the guidance produced as an explanation of the law. I’m struggling to get my head around that!

I think most of the traction is around claims that the guidance is based on the EA2010 only and is in direct conflict with other laws.

Do Bristol Council want to use their budget to take that argument to court?

ThisOneLife · 17/07/2026 18:38

InfoSecInTheCity · 15/07/2026 09:55

My local leisure centre has a mixed sex ‘changing village’ all cubicles, no communal/open plan changing spaces, there are 3 family rooms, 1 big ‘club ‘ room used for the swimming club and school swimming classes, then it’s just lockers and cubicles. The cubicles are open top with huge gaps at bottom and top, very very very easy to look under or over as evidenced many times while I’ve been there by teen boys climbing on the bench and ‘surprising’ the teenage girls in who are trying to get changed. It would be remarkably easy to poke a phone under or over the door and record unsuspecting women getting changed. The showers are the same, individual cubicles but open top with gaps at bottom and top.

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I coached at a swimming club and there wasn’t a week went by without men(young & old) trying to film the girls.

TheignT · 17/07/2026 19:04

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 17/07/2026 18:20

Your unacceptable experience is very unusual. The majority of sex offending, around 98%, is perpetrated by men. The Sunday Times did a load of FOIs and proved that mixed-sex changing rooms are more dangerous for women, and it was sufficiently credible a study that the bastion of reaction right-wing thinking that is the... [rereads notes and looks puzzled]... Independent reported on it.

"A bad thing happened to me once" isn't data.

Well it happened once with a man so fairly balanced for me. The difference is no one is expecting me to strip off in an open changing room with men or just to walk through to find a cubicle and have to witness naked men but it seems like it's fine to expect me to do that with women.

That study was presumably talking about changing rooms where people use cubicles so not what I was talking about.

I don't actually care if it's data I care that I can change in a cubicle and the other people using the changing room also use cubicles.

I wonder what the stats are for the sort of changing facilities I detailed in a Victorian swimming pool? I bet the are so low as to not register.

What percentage of sexual assaults are ok in your book? I was actually more traumatised by the woman than the man so I think dismissing it is very unfair.

nicepotoftea · 17/07/2026 19:11

TheignT · 17/07/2026 19:04

Well it happened once with a man so fairly balanced for me. The difference is no one is expecting me to strip off in an open changing room with men or just to walk through to find a cubicle and have to witness naked men but it seems like it's fine to expect me to do that with women.

That study was presumably talking about changing rooms where people use cubicles so not what I was talking about.

I don't actually care if it's data I care that I can change in a cubicle and the other people using the changing room also use cubicles.

I wonder what the stats are for the sort of changing facilities I detailed in a Victorian swimming pool? I bet the are so low as to not register.

What percentage of sexual assaults are ok in your book? I was actually more traumatised by the woman than the man so I think dismissing it is very unfair.

Has Bristol Council said it will install cubicles in all facilities?

TheignT · 17/07/2026 19:21

nicepotoftea · 17/07/2026 19:11

Has Bristol Council said it will install cubicles in all facilities?

Why ask me, I'm not in Bristol.

nicepotoftea · 17/07/2026 19:35

TheignT · 17/07/2026 19:21

Why ask me, I'm not in Bristol.

Because unless you are suggesting that Bristol Council should do this, it's not clear what you are suggesting.

TheignT · 17/07/2026 19:46

nicepotoftea · 17/07/2026 19:35

Because unless you are suggesting that Bristol Council should do this, it's not clear what you are suggesting.

I never suggested Bristol should do anything. When open changing rooms were brought up I said I wouldn't want that. Fortunately at my two local pools they have plenty of cubicles and no one gets undressed in public but I hope no one suggests that cleaning costs would reduce if they got rid of the cubicles.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 17/07/2026 20:18

TheignT · 17/07/2026 16:33

Sorry I don't want that. I've been to pools like that, always queues waiting for cubicles and to be honest I don't want to see naked bodies while I'm waiting. Enough cubicles for everyone.

How odd. Most people just get on with changing, often with their back to the room, they don’t stand around looking at other people.

Surely a single sex communal changing room with cubicles suits the most amount of people and is most space efficient? In my experience in a single sex space the majority of women are happy to change quickly and I’ve never seen a queue in the places I use.

You appear to be the exception but I think most would prefer to minimise their risk of being filmed or spied on by predatory men. Sad that you would like to deny women and girls that protection.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 17/07/2026 20:23

TheignT · 17/07/2026 19:21

Why ask me, I'm not in Bristol.

This is a thread about changing facilities in Bristol. Afaik the last Victorian style swimming baths closed some years ago so you’ll have to go elsewhere for that.

This thread is discussing single sex services in Bristol, not you asserting your needs and wishing to deny others the choice.

ScrollingLeaves · 17/07/2026 20:35

Bunnyfuller1 · 15/07/2026 08:54

Something I read recently did give me pause…

Some trans men (women) pass exceedingly well - so to all intents and purposes they look male. But will use the female facilities. How will some people deal with what certainly looks like a bloke in the female loos/changing rooms? What’s to stop a predator saying they’re a trans man? I get it the other way, there aren’t as many trans women who pass (they need a critical friend on the hair, make up and fashion elements!) but this does worry me. Feels a bit ‘own goal’ iykwim

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 17/07/2026 20:55

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/07/2026 11:01

Oh but there is

1 - council refuses to enforce EHRC code etc.

2 - Local pressure groups bring a wide range of legal threats to the council, al on record

3 - Council ignore it

4 - Legal action is a huge slam dunk, costing hundreds of thousands of pounds

5 - Local pressure groups tell everyone who will listen that the council set 300 grand on fire

I hope those local pressure groups are listening

Surely we’re at the point now where the law is so clear that just a letter before action should have the lawyers having a quick think and deciding their clients need to comply pronto?

Keeptoiletssafe · 17/07/2026 21:36

TheignT · 16/07/2026 21:01

I learned to swim in an old Victorian pool. The changing cubicles ran along the two long sides of the pool. They were solid construction with big heavy doors and no gaps. The showers were open at one end of the pool so you showered in your costume.. It felt very safe, no worries about who was in the next cubicle and the lifeguard was within calling distance and of course all the other swimmers around. Not sure why that style went out of fashion.

My local modern pool has male and female changing rooms which can feel a bit creepy at quiet times as it would be easy for anyone to enter.

How did the Victorian baths cubicles work then? Surely the bottom of the doors and partitions rotted from the chlorine and water?

Monstershark · 17/07/2026 23:30

I experienced these cubicles round the side of the pool. Boys changed on one side of the pool and girls on the other side. So the there was single sex sides of the pool with teachers monitoring it. As it was swimming lessons everyone was changing at the same time. It was effectively single sex changing areas

Keeptoiletssafe · 17/07/2026 23:35

dizzydizzydizzy · 15/07/2026 17:56

I’m sure you are right.

However, I think it is possible to build and manage safe unisex spaces. The economic reality is that unisex spaces usually cost a lot less to create and run. It’a both a question of what level of risk we are prepared to accept and also what level of cost.

How?

The economic reality is that unisex toilets cost a lot more - they cost a lot more to create and run. They are less safe and less hygienic. They are scientifically proven to contain more pathogens. Women particularly avoid them. You have to create 25% extra unisex units than single sex units due to the extra time spent in each compartment. Misuse (sex and drugs) is a problem due to the private design. Hidden cameras are a problem due to the privacy and the excess equipment you have to have in a unisex toilet. If you have any kind of emergency, medical etc including being trapped, they are worse.

How do you manage health and safety, if it’s overriden by the absolute privacy?

Keeptoiletssafe · 17/07/2026 23:58

TheignT · 17/07/2026 15:31

You referred to a large open-plan changing room. No thanks.

Yet that is the cheapest option and the safest because everyone of the same sex is together. It will be very easy to ventilate and clean. It isn’t great for those who want a bit more privacy.

Keeptoiletssafe · 18/07/2026 00:08

My last post missed off a couple of lines. The compromise, which many people have said, in a communal single sex changing room with a few cubicles (with door and partition gaps below and above) for those who want more privacy eg. Have a young child of the opposite sex with them.

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