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David Walliams

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mrpenny · Yesterday 12:16

To Think it could not have been DW??

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EdithBond · Yesterday 22:56

colouringindoors · Yesterday 21:51

Highly recommend. She talks a lot about Safeguarding which is 100%

She also says one of the teenage girls who visited Walliams' dressing room signed an NDA preventing her from speaking to Anyone inc family, GP, therapist. Disgusting.

Yes, recommend watching this.

She thinks her work in TV will dry up for speaking out. And says there’s no HR department to go to on productions.

There absolutely should be. The entire industry needs a huge shake up. So hard for people to whistleblow against those making so much money for companies, especially when everyone’s on short-term contracts and worried about being hired for the next job.

Koalacanth · Yesterday 22:56

TeethAreImportant · Yesterday 22:42

The furore about Brand and Walliams this week has me wondering how Bill Wyman is sleeping at night these days? I remember him in the papers every week with his girlfriend, Mandy Smith, aged 13. 13 fucking years of age. Even back then I found that rancid. He was 47.

Jimmy Page with Lori Mattix too - she lived in his hotel rooms from the ages of 14 to 16.

twosmallaxolotls · Yesterday 22:58

TeethAreImportant · Yesterday 22:42

The furore about Brand and Walliams this week has me wondering how Bill Wyman is sleeping at night these days? I remember him in the papers every week with his girlfriend, Mandy Smith, aged 13. 13 fucking years of age. Even back then I found that rancid. He was 47.

I agree, how on earth has he got away with that?

Beryl92 · Yesterday 23:06

TeethAreImportant · Yesterday 22:42

The furore about Brand and Walliams this week has me wondering how Bill Wyman is sleeping at night these days? I remember him in the papers every week with his girlfriend, Mandy Smith, aged 13. 13 fucking years of age. Even back then I found that rancid. He was 47.

VCM said it best: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2010/apr/18/mandy-smith-bill-wyman-coren

Heed Mandy's moral values | Victoria Coren

Victoria Coren: The former wild child Mandy Smith is worried about today's girls. But I'm worried about Bill Wyman

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2010/apr/18/mandy-smith-bill-wyman-coren

Scarcityvarcity · Yesterday 23:06

Firsttimemum2023 · Yesterday 22:49

The law has been changed and consensual sex with an under 18 isn’t necessarily legal. If the people aren’t deemed “peers” - typically similar age/status, then a typical 16 or 17 year old can still be deemed unable to consent and the act a crime.

It's 16 unless the other person is in a "position of trust" e.g teacher, doctor, social worker. They don't have to be a "peer".

twosmallaxolotls · Yesterday 23:11

Good article. Mandy was certainly touted as glamorous and aspirational.

nomas · Yesterday 23:13

twosmallaxolotls · Yesterday 22:58

I agree, how on earth has he got away with that?

If he admitted it when she was 14, he should be arrested now.

Lookatheskies · Yesterday 23:13

Good on Lucy Beaumont.

PrincessScarlett · Yesterday 23:15

Just watched the Lucy Beaumont interview. Bravo Lucy! I've never been a fan but she has my total respect whistleblowing on DW. How can it be that noone else took the stance she has? She was concerned as a woman and a mother. And it was very interesting to hear her talk about why noone else stands up for what is right. Because they are all being paid too much and don't want to rock the boat. She honestly believes she'll never work in TV again for whistleblowing but it's impressive to see her strong moral compass.

nomas · Yesterday 23:16

Lookatheskies · Yesterday 23:13

Good on Lucy Beaumont.

What has she said?

AmateurDad · Yesterday 23:16

WhispersOfWinter · Yesterday 12:24

The worst kept secret and he was outed on Sky news the other day. Everything about him just screams sleezy 🤢

Like what?

I am not in any way a fan, just curious what people mean when they say this. What's sleazy about him in particular?

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Yesterday 23:17

PrincessScarlett · Yesterday 23:15

Just watched the Lucy Beaumont interview. Bravo Lucy! I've never been a fan but she has my total respect whistleblowing on DW. How can it be that noone else took the stance she has? She was concerned as a woman and a mother. And it was very interesting to hear her talk about why noone else stands up for what is right. Because they are all being paid too much and don't want to rock the boat. She honestly believes she'll never work in TV again for whistleblowing but it's impressive to see her strong moral compass.

It was a really interesting interview. And interesting that the person chose to confide in her about what they knew.

hidingfromthewind · Yesterday 23:18

Celer · Yesterday 12:52

Having read the article, I wonder if he has actually broken any laws as such? Not excusing deeply sleazy and immoral behaviour but he does seem to have stayed just on the right side of the law.

I might be wrong.

I think groping and sucking a 15 year olds breast I not legal!

Lookatheskies · Yesterday 23:18

Lucy is suggesting an anonymous database where you can report sexually suggestive comments. She thinks she will never work in TV again for speaking up.

PrincessScarlett · Yesterday 23:30

nomas · Yesterday 23:16

What has she said?

Someone junior in TV confided in her that they took young girls to DWs dressing room. They felt uncomfortable doing so and considered the girls vulnerable but didn't know how to report it. Lucy tried to contact some of the girls to see if they were ok. One of them was not ok and Lucy then went to The Guardian with the information she had.

hidingfromthewind · Yesterday 23:31

Portmore · Yesterday 13:29

When Alton Towers suddenly closed down the popular section & scrubbed out or painted over every mention of his name or initials. It pretty much gave it away.

What a k* . Shane as the books were really popular with kids especially those who weren't keen readers. Can't see them remaining in school libraries after this.

The books are awful. Really awful. My son got a set for Christmas.

We began one and it was so vile about children's bodies , I binned it.

I wanted to bin them all, but my son was really wanting to try another. Sneering, classist, just awful. My son was happy for me to bin them.

twosmallaxolotls · Yesterday 23:33

PrincessScarlett · Yesterday 23:30

Someone junior in TV confided in her that they took young girls to DWs dressing room. They felt uncomfortable doing so and considered the girls vulnerable but didn't know how to report it. Lucy tried to contact some of the girls to see if they were ok. One of them was not ok and Lucy then went to The Guardian with the information she had.

Didn't she offer financial support as well?
She thinks her work will dry up because of it.

PrincessScarlett · Yesterday 23:34

twosmallaxolotls · Yesterday 23:33

Didn't she offer financial support as well?
She thinks her work will dry up because of it.

Yes she offered the girl money for legal fees but the girl was too frightened to take it further.

Lifeomars · Yesterday 23:43

TeethAreImportant · Yesterday 22:42

The furore about Brand and Walliams this week has me wondering how Bill Wyman is sleeping at night these days? I remember him in the papers every week with his girlfriend, Mandy Smith, aged 13. 13 fucking years of age. Even back then I found that rancid. He was 47.

Her mother enabled and encouraged her relationship with Wyman and at one stage she (the mother) got engaged to Wyman's son from his first marriage! Mandy Smith has spoken about wishing that the age of consent could be raised to 18. She was really damaged by the whole thing, unsurprisingly, but i think she is doing ok now . Always thought Bill Wyman was an absolute sleaze and he has never been held to account

Getsomemeatonyerbones · Yesterday 23:44

I always always thought he was gay, everything about him screams gay, so odd

Twilight7777 · Yesterday 23:44

Not at all surprised, always found him to be very creepy same with Brand. Fully expecting the next one to be either NF or JR, there’s also another much more well known name to come but I suspect that one won’t come til after he passes away.

SexyFrenchDepression · Yesterday 23:45

Bobbieiris · Yesterday 14:37

Urgh why are some men so creepy? I remember when I was 16 and working at next I got a lot of inappropriate comments and touching from a man in his 40s. At the time I thought it was just another gross man to ignore and brush off but looking back it's just disgusting

When I was 17 (30 yrs ago) I had a relationship with the person who was my work experience boss. He was 40 and separated. Basically some of his family members found out and I got the blame, he was vile to me. For many years I felt awful about it, blamed myself and then about 10 years ago it dawned on me that it waa totally him not me. Totally inappropriate and completely gaslit me about the situation, eg I seduced him, threw myself at him etc etc.

There are several incidents I look back on now in my first 2 work places that were totally inappropriate and I also shrugged them off, one more than one occasion I was told it was my fault for how I dressed. I completely believed it was normal, it was how things were with powerful men. I genuinely didnt think differently till I was much older about any of it.

I am glad now that things are changing and these men are being held accountable.

Luckily I'm not traumatised by it but it makes me mad that they never took any responsibility for their behaviour. It was always the woman's fault.

Koalacanth · Yesterday 23:49

Getsomemeatonyerbones · Yesterday 23:44

I always always thought he was gay, everything about him screams gay, so odd

https://youtube.com/shorts/D_v8OW5p3sA?si=xGT8Fgzb2EyfLFZW

BoredZelda · Today 00:04

BrandiedAromatics · Yesterday 13:02

Jonathan Ross loving it again. We had the Sachsgate humiliation, the vile comments lead by Ross over Lily Allen on a panel, and now introducing David Walliams:

Jonathan Ross, opened the show with a joke pointedly referencing him: “The comedy awards is 15 years old – 15 years old! And like most 15-year-olds, it’s drunk, it’s unpredictable and it’s probably going home with David Walliams.”

Ross, responding through lawyers, said he did not write the joke himself.

Oh, aren't you clever Jonathan ......

Edited

Interestingly, on the Newsagents podcast, they discussed this and referred to him as “the host”. I a, assuming their legal team have advised them not to mention him in connection with this. I wonder if he has been threatening legal action.

Getsomemeatonyerbones · Today 00:10

Yes but even the way he stands, his hands etc, hard to explain. He definitely appears gay