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David Walliams

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mrpenny · 10/11/2026 12:16

To Think it could not have been DW??

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Firesidechatter · 10/11/2026 15:00

Allseeingallknowing · 10/11/2026 14:57

You can’t possibly know this,unless you are a close confidante of DW!

Oh cmon, he has not been accused of rape, if you prefer that language better. The worst he’s been accused of is kissing a fifteen year olds breast, which is heinous in itself, and is sexual assault, but is not a rape allegation.

Firesidechatter · 10/11/2026 15:01

lastapache · 10/11/2026 15:00

It entirely depends on whether the women involved have made complaints to the police. Contacting a minor on social media with the intent of facilitating inappropriate contact is a criminal offence, even if nothing ultimately occurs. But the police can't pursue anything that they haven't received a complaint about.

Nobody should be saying that he should be jailed on foot of a tv documentary. But you don't need to prove a criminal offence in a courtroom to lose your job, or your reputation. And that is what is happening to him here. He is very well off, he won't be destitute.

But again if you read the article and look at his messages, there is nothing sexual in them,

Birdie2026 · 10/11/2026 15:02

I am currently watching Power and Silence, the David Walliams story, on Youtube and it's grim. There appears to be a lot of email and social media messaging evidence to suggest he was the one to instigate conversations with teenagers.

HectorPlasm · 10/11/2026 15:03

I've always had bad vibes about JR - add the bake-off man to that vibe too

Allseeingallknowing · 10/11/2026 15:04

Firesidechatter · 10/11/2026 15:00

Oh cmon, he has not been accused of rape, if you prefer that language better. The worst he’s been accused of is kissing a fifteen year olds breast, which is heinous in itself, and is sexual assault, but is not a rape allegation.

We don’t know what went on in private!

Oxo01 · 10/11/2026 15:05

BrandiedAromatics · 10/11/2026 12:49

Harper Collins have a lot to answer for - they knew for years. Sent women to deal with him in pairs and compensated a female member of staff. This predator was promoted at book signings - that's how he contacted some of the youngest behind the allegations:

‘It wasn’t long until he asked me if I’d ever had sex before’: David Walliams accused of preying on young women for sex | David Walliams | The Guardian

They said the 1hr documentary is on utube

lastapache · 10/11/2026 15:06

Firesidechatter · 10/11/2026 15:01

But again if you read the article and look at his messages, there is nothing sexual in them,

Not when they were underage, but in one of the women's cases the contact turned sexual once she turned 17. Even if that's not falling foul of the grooming laws, that's grooming, plain and simple. I don't think anyone would disagree that that is completely unacceptable behaviour for a 32 year old man - famous or not. It's definitely serious enough behaviour to permanently damage your reputation and your likelihood to be employed in the public eye again. He would have known that at the time, and he did it anyway.

lastapache · 10/11/2026 15:08

HectorPlasm · 10/11/2026 15:03

I've always had bad vibes about JR - add the bake-off man to that vibe too

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I'm so sad about that. Always liked NF. I know that visually he presents as alternative and a bit weird, but I never got the creepy vibe from him. Unlike DW.

WitchesBritches · 10/11/2026 15:09

Bundleflower · 10/11/2026 14:00

How so? He’s already threatened it. I believe he’ll follow it through.

Your certainty that he will do it and that he will do it by the end of the week.

mrpenny · 10/11/2026 15:10

nomas · 10/11/2026 15:05

Which bit are you referring to in the article?

You realise MN isn't pay per word? Explain what you're saying!

I think I wrote it???🙄🤨In one word….

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Stowickthevast · 10/11/2026 15:12

Firesidechatter · 10/11/2026 15:00

Oh cmon, he has not been accused of rape, if you prefer that language better. The worst he’s been accused of is kissing a fifteen year olds breast, which is heinous in itself, and is sexual assault, but is not a rape allegation.

The 15 year old says he kissed her breast and tried to put her hands down his trousers. That would constitute sexual assault as far as I'm aware.

Bundleflower · 10/11/2026 15:15

WitchesBritches · 10/11/2026 15:09

Your certainty that he will do it and that he will do it by the end of the week.

My certainty? On my certain-ometer I put ‘reckon’ at around 60%.

Librarina · 10/11/2026 15:17

Araminta1004 · 10/11/2026 13:15

DS (who is 12 now) had a primary teacher who purged all his books from the school library a few years back already, she must have known something. I asked her about it and she said he was dodgy.
So what is going to happen to the books now in schools/libraries?

I was at a publishing event in 2015 (I remember the year because I was still BFing and milk leaked through my dress). Harper Collins was a sponsor and I was at a table with some of their staff. They told me that they didn't allow any of their young female colleagues to be alone with him.

Since then I haven't bought any of his books for my Libraries or delivered lessons that have promoted them and I've never bought his books for my own children. However I have accepted them as donations and added those as stock because they were so popular but in the last 2 or 3 years I've not replaced copies that have worn out and donations of his books have often been added to my 'freebies' table.

I've got one or two hardbacks put to one side which will be turns into folded book Christmas Trees. I'm sharing paper-crafts ideas with my Librarian colleagues so that we can make something beautiful out of his shit.

Firesidechatter · 10/11/2026 15:18

lastapache · 10/11/2026 15:06

Not when they were underage, but in one of the women's cases the contact turned sexual once she turned 17. Even if that's not falling foul of the grooming laws, that's grooming, plain and simple. I don't think anyone would disagree that that is completely unacceptable behaviour for a 32 year old man - famous or not. It's definitely serious enough behaviour to permanently damage your reputation and your likelihood to be employed in the public eye again. He would have known that at the time, and he did it anyway.

But the messages are things like good luck in your exams, stay in touch, he’s been very careful. There is nothing in there sexual,

KidsDoBetter · 10/11/2026 15:19

WitchesBritches · 10/11/2026 15:09

Your certainty that he will do it and that he will do it by the end of the week.

God I think speculation from @Bundleflower about when someone might die by suicide is pretty unnecessary. Jeez.

Allseeingallknowing · 10/11/2026 15:19

So why is he threatening to kill himself if he’s not done anything wrong?

AStonedRose · 10/11/2026 15:19

Confused by the multiple posters defending DW. Clearly there are loads of men who post here. Even if he's not a rapist, he's sexually assaulted kids. He's a nonce.

Unfortunately, I reckon the large majority of men would behave like this, if they thought they could get away with it.

Bundleflower · 10/11/2026 15:23

KidsDoBetter · 10/11/2026 15:19

God I think speculation from @Bundleflower about when someone might die by suicide is pretty unnecessary. Jeez.

I think you actually mean ‘speculation by BundleFlower on when someone may follow through what he threatened as part of his sickening attempt to silence the British media about his vile behaviour as a final act of trying to take control’.

KidsDoBetter · 10/11/2026 15:23

AStonedRose · 10/11/2026 15:19

Confused by the multiple posters defending DW. Clearly there are loads of men who post here. Even if he's not a rapist, he's sexually assaulted kids. He's a nonce.

Unfortunately, I reckon the large majority of men would behave like this, if they thought they could get away with it.

Sadly I think that the number of men, once they find power through fame, wealth or celebrity who do do this - bears witness to this.

Some of them would - they just don't get the opportunity.

I do of course understand that not all men would even if they could. But still ... its so bloody depressing.

Flymyprettiesflies · 10/11/2026 15:24

mrpenny · 10/11/2026 12:16

To Think it could not have been DW??

Have met him, work reasons. He was an absolute smarmy prick and I believe every single allegation.

Flymyprettiesflies · 10/11/2026 15:25

Also know people who had to work with Brand and no-one could stand him, another absolute Bellend who was horrible to anyone ‘beneath’ him. Which in his stupid little head was pretty much everyone.

KidsDoBetter · 10/11/2026 15:27

Bundleflower · 10/11/2026 15:23

I think you actually mean ‘speculation by BundleFlower on when someone may follow through what he threatened as part of his sickening attempt to silence the British media about his vile behaviour as a final act of trying to take control’.

I don't agree with his attempt to silence the media with this threat - either morally or legally.

But I don't think its in good taste to speculate excatly when a child's father might take their own life.

I do accept however that by running this argument through the court, he has brought this discussion into the public domain so there we are.

FWIW I feel that if was seriously going to do it, it would be done by now. I don't think he will.

Here I am speculating ... hypocritically.

Flymyprettiesflies · 10/11/2026 15:27

‘Harper Collins was a sponsor and I was at a table with some of their staff. They told me that they didn't allow any of their young female colleagues to be alone with him.’

same went for Brand, friend said that they wouldn’t let him be alone with any female staff and no woman under 30 around him at all.

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