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Getsomemeatonyerbones · 08/11/2026 18:16

They are very strange arent they?
I have always thought this.
He either looks manic and crazy or they're like black holes, just dead, wonder if that's telling?

Also, did you ever fancy him? I had a friend who thought he was gorgeous. I never ever did and he couldn't have been further from my type

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SultanaPud · 08/11/2026 21:17

Strip away the pretentious hair, facial hair, flamboyant/dishevelled clothes, sunglasses and jewellery and and you just have an ordinary-looking man who violently attacks women.

He's no different to any other violent criminal or controlling abuser. The ridiculous hair and pointy boots etc were all part of his cover.

A rapist hiding in plain sight all along.

Dexternight · 08/11/2026 21:19

SultanaPud · 08/11/2026 21:17

Strip away the pretentious hair, facial hair, flamboyant/dishevelled clothes, sunglasses and jewellery and and you just have an ordinary-looking man who violently attacks women.

He's no different to any other violent criminal or controlling abuser. The ridiculous hair and pointy boots etc were all part of his cover.

A rapist hiding in plain sight all along.

A rapist who was enabled and encouraged by the media and corporations because he made lots of money for them.
Despicable.

Minasama · 08/11/2026 21:21

I always found him creepy and weird.

Thewonderfuldollypartonsbra · 08/11/2026 21:23

OchreReader · 08/11/2026 21:09

I’ve never fancied him, or thought he was in any way handsome. I couldn’t stand his voice and I would imagine I could smell him through my tv 🤢 The eyes…

I was a very young student nurse when I had a frightening experience in the nurse’s residence. It was back when old psychiatric hospitals/institutions were just on the point of being closed in favour of community care, but this one was still going strong.

Unlike the general hospitals nurse accommodation, security was non existent, and people could come and go at any time. There was also a mix of male and female students. I was in my room one evening when someone knocked on my door. It was a bloke in his mid 20’s asking if I had any change for the pay phone (before mobiles unfortunately). I turned to check my purse and he followed me in my room. That pricked my senses, and I turned to tell him I didn’t have change. He was looking at me intently, and the minute I looked at his eyes I thought ‘Shit! You’re not a new student, you’re a bloody resident’. He was staring and smiling at me and then said he’d be back with his camera because he wanted photos of me. I looked out my room window to see if he had gone, and he was staring up at my window and waved.

Thankfully the male nursing officer took me seriously, and whatever he did I was never bothered again, but he told me it was one of the men from the ‘rehab’ wards for sex offenders.

Anyway, after all that my point is that it was his eyes that let me know his intentions were not good, even though he was friendly and smiling. Looking at certain pictures of RB, it takes me right back to that night. At times they really are the window to the soul 😳

I used to work with a bloke who everyone loved (im retail and he was maintenance)

I didn't know him at all so didn't have an opinion on him either way-id barely said two words to him

Anyway,one day id been at our other store (can't remember why) and was just about to walk out of the door to set off to 'my' store

He offered me a lift-and something in his eyes told me not to get in his van

I cant explain what it was,I cant say 'oh he did x,y or z' as it wasn't that simple, it was the way he looked at me

He never spoke to me again-he actively ignored me after that and I know he slagged me off to my bosses (my male manager told me that id offended this bloke)

6 months later,he's arrested and charged for rape

He'd been following women after dark,then started flashing at them,then ramped it up just like Wayne Couzins did

So many of the women at work said (afterwards) that he'd creeped them out but they didn't feel able to say anything and the men hadn't seen it coming/some still think he was innocent

And his girlfriend stood by him-as far as I know,they are still together (this was just before covid)

'I thought i could smell him through the tv' is exactly what I felt about RB,you just know he honked of hair grease,bo and had stinky feet

Revolting bastard

Moonlightdust · 08/11/2026 21:25

Robogob · 08/11/2026 18:23

I know most people will say I’m imagining it or being hysterical, but I think his eyes are evil. Proper malevolent evil.

I’ve always thought this too right from the start when everyone else seemed to think he was great. I do believe eyes are the window to the soul. This might sound stupid but since I was young whenever I saw a murderer on tv or read an article I struggled to look into their eyes and would sometimes cover them up - sounds ridiculous I know but even in my 40s I feel uneasy - as so often you can see something really horrible in them.

LuciferOverLancashire · 08/11/2026 21:29

His eyes are horrible, and his gums

Khayker · 08/11/2026 21:31

Getsomemeatonyerbones · 08/11/2026 18:16

They are very strange arent they?
I have always thought this.
He either looks manic and crazy or they're like black holes, just dead, wonder if that's telling?

Also, did you ever fancy him? I had a friend who thought he was gorgeous. I never ever did and he couldn't have been further from my type

Always gave me a Jimmy Saville vibe looks like my spidey senses were right.

OchreReader · 08/11/2026 21:31

Thewonderfuldollypartonsbra · 08/11/2026 21:23

I used to work with a bloke who everyone loved (im retail and he was maintenance)

I didn't know him at all so didn't have an opinion on him either way-id barely said two words to him

Anyway,one day id been at our other store (can't remember why) and was just about to walk out of the door to set off to 'my' store

He offered me a lift-and something in his eyes told me not to get in his van

I cant explain what it was,I cant say 'oh he did x,y or z' as it wasn't that simple, it was the way he looked at me

He never spoke to me again-he actively ignored me after that and I know he slagged me off to my bosses (my male manager told me that id offended this bloke)

6 months later,he's arrested and charged for rape

He'd been following women after dark,then started flashing at them,then ramped it up just like Wayne Couzins did

So many of the women at work said (afterwards) that he'd creeped them out but they didn't feel able to say anything and the men hadn't seen it coming/some still think he was innocent

And his girlfriend stood by him-as far as I know,they are still together (this was just before covid)

'I thought i could smell him through the tv' is exactly what I felt about RB,you just know he honked of hair grease,bo and had stinky feet

Revolting bastard

Thank goodness you didn’t get in that van!

You’re right, it’s a certain way the eyes look that you can’t really describe. Horrible

LuciferOverLancashire · 08/11/2026 21:32

Getsomemeatonyerbones · 08/11/2026 18:23

Since reading yesterday about what he used to do to his dog, I can't stop thinking about it, poor poor dog. I think it's such a strange way to act, especially as a child, it's almost evil

What did he do to the dog (but I’m not sure I want to know really)

HRTQueen · 08/11/2026 21:32

MabelAnderson · 08/11/2026 20:18

Yes he does have an air of Charles Manson. I wonder if he is very persuasive in real life, as in Sunday Service he just seemed like a bully.

I think this is something they shall have to monitor as he has a lot of interesting stories to tell

though a sex offender so will be on a vulnerable prisoner wing he will have others who are more of a target once the interest of having such a high profile prisoner

it would not surprised me at all if he has a following a few years down the line

as for the evil eyes many are posting about when you have someone who has a sudden surge of emotion or rage their eyes will often darken. It’s unnerving because your brain is telling you that you are not safe even if they are appearing calm the feeling is biological response to you being in danger not intuition that they are dangerous

Schwepper · 08/11/2026 21:33

I did think he was attractive back in the day; not exactly good looking physically, but very charismatic with a weird magnetism about him.

MamaToABeautifulBoy · 08/11/2026 21:35

His smile is gummy, he looks like he hasn’t got an arse and is morphing into Charles Manson.

LuciferOverLancashire · 08/11/2026 21:36

LuciferOverLancashire · 08/11/2026 21:32

What did he do to the dog (but I’m not sure I want to know really)

apologies I have just read about the dog what a c*t what an absolute c*t 😢

AgentPidge · 08/11/2026 21:37

LuciferOverLancashire · 08/11/2026 21:32

What did he do to the dog (but I’m not sure I want to know really)

Apparently, in his book he said his childhood dog wasn't allowed up the stairs. So he'd go on the landing, call her up, then when she came up he'd tell her off then kick her down, then go down and comfort her. Sounds like a control thing (unsurprisingly). She was a nervous dog too, apparently. Weird he should've written about it.

Birdshitbridgegotme · 08/11/2026 21:37

I always thought he was odd. He wasn’t funny at all. I hated the way he dressed and don’t get me started on the hair. I always wondered how he got away with saying the stuff he did. I didn’t ever think he was
more than a bit eccentric though. But
looking back now I’m not really surprised by what’s come out.

Vitrolinsanity · 08/11/2026 21:37

Lemieux7 · 08/11/2026 18:19

In person I’m sure he’s very charming but I wouldn’t have touched him with a barge pole.

He is, according to my sister who has met him several times at Soho house and is now utterly appalled she drank champagne and had a very convivial time with a rapist.

Thewonderfuldollypartonsbra · 08/11/2026 21:40

OchreReader · 08/11/2026 21:31

Thank goodness you didn’t get in that van!

You’re right, it’s a certain way the eyes look that you can’t really describe. Horrible

He has brown eyes,they went black as he offered me the lift

My adult ds has dark eyes and they are warm unless he loses his temper (which happens very rarely)

I cant put it into words but they looked dead and nothing behind them

BigMommasHouse · 08/11/2026 21:42

Rasputin

Shamesame · 08/11/2026 21:43

A friend was on the Katy Perry tour when they were married.

Russell was the only big ego on that tour, would insist rooms were cleared for him (ie the paid tour members who were meant to be there and had jobs to do weren’t able to use communal spaces) was widely regarded as insufferable and smelt as bad as people imagined judging by comments on here.

WarmHiker · 08/11/2026 21:45

5128gap · 08/11/2026 18:33

I must be one of the tiny minority of people who never looked at Brand and thought him anything other than a decent looking if you like that sort of thing, funny at times bloke, with perfectly ordinary eyes. I never got 'a vibe', a foreshadowing of evil, my flesh didn't crawl and I categorically did not know all along he was a wrong un.

You are in the minority indeed. The rest of the country apparently knew he was a wrong un, found him dead behind the eyes, found him creepy and thought he wasn’t funny. Yet lapped him up in the media to the point that he was a huge star for decades.

But apparently no one, none of these people ever liked him.

Very curious indeed.

OtterlyAstounding · 08/11/2026 21:47

I wonder how much of that feeling people say they get about his eyes is the actual eyeballs (which doesn't make sense to me unless it's related to pupil dilation) and how much is muscle tension around the eyes that communicates emotion through micro-expressions - a sense of rage, contempt, or avarice for instance, communicated in the set of the eyebrows, the muscles in the forehead, around the orbital bones, at the nose, etc.

He does seem to have very tense, emotive features that frequently show a manic edge - as though he's on hyper-alert all the time, and always on the verge of tipping over into anger. (Edit: In recent years anyway. I don't recall if he did when he was younger.)

I never thought much of him. He wasn't my type, he looked dirty and selfish, and while I thought he was very impressively skilled at his non-stop patter, it often irritated me that he used twenty words where two would do. He was always too impressed with himself.

TouchMyBumThisIsLife · 08/11/2026 21:48

Imagine the book deal his wife is likely to be offered.

Prekoc2 · 08/11/2026 21:49

5128gap · 08/11/2026 18:33

I must be one of the tiny minority of people who never looked at Brand and thought him anything other than a decent looking if you like that sort of thing, funny at times bloke, with perfectly ordinary eyes. I never got 'a vibe', a foreshadowing of evil, my flesh didn't crawl and I categorically did not know all along he was a wrong un.

This kind of thing is just confirmation bias in most cases.

daschaund · 08/11/2026 21:50

Getsomemeatonyerbones · 08/11/2026 18:19

Do you think it's just this?

Yes

TouchMyBumThisIsLife · 08/11/2026 21:52

Listening back to his jokes it saddens me to hear so many women laughing when he talks about rape.

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