this is more of an etiquette issue than an employment issue! is there an etiquette board? there should be! apologies if in wrong place.
a colleague is going off to get married this weekend, what is the done thing - should we be clubbing together to get her a 'congratulations' card - a gift? i get on really well with her. she's a permanent employee but a bit of a lone wolf as her line manager is based in another country. i know no-one else will have organised anything. or do we just say 'good luck'?
she's just invited a few of us to go out tomorrow to grab a falafel at lunchtime - her last 'freedom falafel' which has made me think it would be nice to do something
your help v much appreciated! thanks!