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How can we improve morale?

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Higgledee · 02/11/2026 14:25

DH runs a small business; he’s had it for years. Some staff have been with him for decades, some are newer.
I work there part time.

Morale seems quite low at the moment.

Everyone has had a pay rise in the last 12 months; either because of promotion or as a pay review/cost of living adjustment.

Perks are good; holidays, flexible working, on site facilities etc.

We had a bash this summer, all paid for, that was moderately well attended.

Will a Christmas party do the trick do you think?
Or are there other perks /morale boosters that you have found work well?

If you are an employee, what would you like to happen at your place of work?

What would give you a boost? Other than a pay rise 😊

TIA

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bardabunga · 02/11/2026 15:17

Ah - I was writing my post and didn't see your update. Maybe you need to find out more from this department manager then.

Currentime · 02/11/2026 15:32

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Saturdaysfairies · 02/11/2026 15:48

Higgledee · 02/11/2026 15:06

Thank you all so much for the responses. I really appreciate it.

I was told today by a department manager that he considers morale is low and some staff are critical of each other.

This manager mentioned the Christmas Party hence my mentioning it. Like most of you, I don't think it is the answer at all. Knowing how much it's cost in previous years, I imagine most staff would rather have a share of the cost as cash in their own pockets to spend as they wished, with friends and family.

Talk to these members of staff?

Higgledee · 02/11/2026 15:54

If I've given that impression that we just want to placate then that's my mistake.
We definitely want to get to the root cause and deal with it.

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Saturdaysfairies · 02/11/2026 15:56

Higgledee · 02/11/2026 15:54

If I've given that impression that we just want to placate then that's my mistake.
We definitely want to get to the root cause and deal with it.

Have you talked to your staff?

HisStericalTestes · 02/11/2026 15:59

It does feel like there is something going on what you might be unaware off - feedback surveys are needed. It could be a simple fix or they might be upset with a collegue. No point hoping you can guess and spending on parties that might make it worse. We used to dread Christmas parties because "the problem" in our office would do loads of coke and be angry and pervy all night ...

Megifer · 02/11/2026 16:07

I wouldnt do a feedback survey. No one trusts them, especially in a SME.

Firstly you need to speak to the manager who is giving you this feedback. People openly critical of each other could be due to many reasons, one thats cropped up a lot IME is unclear job remits or people competing with each other (bad management ultimately)

Higgledee · 02/11/2026 16:08

bardabunga · 02/11/2026 15:09

@Higgledee Some people do get a funny idea about part-timers sometimes, and resent the fact that 'they can swan in and out when they feel like it'. Now I'm not saying that is happening here, but it is possible that one or two people might be carrying that resentment.

Have either you or your DH recently bought expensive cars or been on any exotic holidays? Some staff don't take kindly to that if their own pay rise hasn't been what they hoped. They aren't happy that the boss takes loads of money out of the business (money the employee helped to earn).

My guess is that you have one or two staff who have an attitude problem, and are causing it to spread like a rash.

In a small business, nobody is going to complain to the boss for fear of a negative impact on their own career, and they are certainly not going to confide in his wife for the same reason. Get your most loyal and trusted employee to put their ear to the ground and find out for you.

Once you know what the problem is, you can fix it.

I’m not the wife, I’m the other husband, but I get your drift 😁

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Unexpectedlysinglemum · 02/11/2026 16:08

Extra days annual leave

Nevermissabeat · 02/11/2026 16:16

An Xmas party won't help. Dragging staff out on a dark, cold evening, is not appreciated.

FrenchandSaunders · 02/11/2026 16:17

Bloody hell some of these responses ... running a small business these days takes an enormous amount of time and effort/hours ... if my staff resented me taking a nice holiday or getting a new car I'd be livid!

NerdyBird · 02/11/2026 16:19

A party won’t fix it but a christmas bonus might be welcome. Look at whether you really need people ‘in’ to do their job or if it could be at home. If you have departments and managers the business doesn’t sound that small to me so a survey could also work.
Where I work there’s been fairly constant restructuring and redundancies which obviously doesn’t help, but people also questioned spending money on parties and new offices (only a few people really want to work in the office, but they are all the directors).

bardabunga · 02/11/2026 16:35

Higgledee · 02/11/2026 16:08

I’m not the wife, I’m the other husband, but I get your drift 😁

Apologies! There's me making assumptions again, I should know better after all these years!😂

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 02/11/2026 16:39

Half day Fridays on same pay.

FannybygaslightinGovan · 02/11/2026 16:39

What kind of flexible working do you offer? Can people work from home?
Are staff treated and trusted like the adults they are?

Comvit · 02/11/2026 16:42

Corgi2023 · 02/11/2026 14:59

I'd suggest 121s. Find out what if any issues there are. Sometimes people just need to feel valued and that they are listened to. Ask them what would make the workplace/job better. Find out if they have difficulty with school holiday cover etc. Can you increase holidays?

The world is actually quite depressing at the moment. Perhaps they all feel like they might lose their job.

If one-to-ones are done by bosses/managers/owners themselves then they're a terrible idea. Bring in an external company for an objective voice.

But if the answer is that your DH is the problem (Or the company. Or the work. Or DH's mate who works there. Or whatever.) then DH needs to actually take that seriously and address it.

At the company my DH set up staff morale is absolutely on the floor because of the CEO. The board ran an anonymous survey. 100% of responses came back naming the CEO as the reason the staff all hate it. The board didn't remove him. They told him but he didn't change. So morale just got even worse.

bakermummy21 · 02/11/2026 17:26

Yes a Christmas bonus sounds a good idea with some acknowledgment that the staff have worked so hard this year/appreciated etc

GipsyandIvy · 02/11/2026 17:31

I think you have (at least) one troublemaker in your midst.

Skybluecoat · 02/11/2026 17:46

Short term, give them all Christmas Eve off on full pay, or defer their return date by a day.

Longer term, you probably have a supervisor or junior manager problem. Someone who has favourites, is moody, or is very negative or overly demanding.

If neither you nor DH knows who that person might be, you need to keep a closer eye on things.

GeorgeMichaelsCat · 02/11/2026 18:09

some staff are critical of each other

I'd start with this. Who and why.

Also sometimes it is the small things. Free bog standard tea and coffee. Free fruit.

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Minasama · 02/11/2026 18:16

Say thank you to your staff when they do things for you, and make sure any people managers do the same. Lift each other up, don’t beat each other down.

Ensure there is not a culture of nitpicking.

Have there been any new hires recently, can one of them be causing a problem?

Who are the leadership/managers and are they good leaders? This makes a huge difference to morale. Any unfairness, micromanaging or favoritism will soon have a bad impact.

Depending on your financial situation, parties aren’t always the best idea. My husband’s firm did not pay a bonus but put on a big party. A lot of people remarked they’d rather have had their bonus (bonuses were hundreds rather than thousands, the party was clearly multi-six-figure affair so this did actually compute.)

Badbadbunny · 02/11/2026 19:07

Are all staff pulling their weight or is there one or two stragglers in the mix who is causing the others to do more or correct their mistakes, etc?

Hadroncollideer · 03/11/2026 10:54

Sounds like you have a lot of perks in place already. Could be simply one or 2 bad apples amongst the staff.

Are there any shit stirrers? Managers who bully ?

Incompetent members of staff can also be a huge drain on morale , both for those being managed by them and those tasked with trying to get them to do their job properly.

Headflip · 03/11/2026 11:04

My guess is you have an unreasonable or inconsistent manager.

The worst place I ever worked for morale was a place with two equally senior managers who would give conflicting instructions, and we were constantly getting told we were wrong by one for doing what we'd been asked to by the other.