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Job went to another internal candidate, how to move on.

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finfitrulesok · 05/07/2025 15:35

I was the better candidate. The other person has been unreliable. I have more experience, more qualifications, and have a lot more proof of what I have invested and achieved. I am baffled that they chose the other person. I don't want to go back in and face it all. This is such a huge set back and I am gutted at all the time and energy I invested in making sure I was ready for this role. No career progression for me now. Unsure what to do.

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Rubiscoisfantastic · 28/06/2026 09:16

@sorryIdidntmeanto congratulations on your new role! A big f u as you leave, with your head held high.. 😁

unbelieveable22 · 29/06/2026 05:48

sorryIdidntmeanto · 28/06/2026 01:14

Hi, I am the OP. Here to update a few who asked, and I missed it. It is a good ending. So I took the other role they had in mind for me, as I didn't really have any other choice. I kept an eye out for other opportunities. And before half term I applied for and secured a better role in another school, to start September. I am looking forward to moving on, as the climate in my current workplace hasn't improved. Funnily enough, I was able to reuse most of my previous interview prep, including the presentation.

Well done and congratulations. Delighted at such a positive outcome. Big surprise for those who had rejected you earlier and taken advantage of your willingness to go the extra mile. Their loss. How is the other person getting on in the role?
Good luck, onwards and upwards!

sorryIdidntmeanto · 29/06/2026 07:07

Thank you. She is doing fine, but might find it a bit harder when I go!

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