Not a brag but hopefully a tale of heart. I was working in the city last year in a stressful role for a company that was indifferent to its staff. Full time and I have two children, 3 and 5. I was the main earner in our house. I live on the south coast so the commute was long. I quit last summer with nothing to go to. My DH was supportive and was actually was able to step up and earn more (self employed) as I wasn’t working. It took 6 months and lots of rejections but I found a fantastic FT job locally with a company that reflects its values. I’m so much happier. My learning - take a leap of faith. Wish I’d done it sooner. The right fit is out there for everyone.