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Heard my colleague bad mouth me.

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Knackered2234 · 11/06/2024 18:18

I heard a colleague tell another colleague “ she doesn’t trust me and I’m not to be trusted”

It hurt and shocked me to hear this and I’ve no idea where this has come from.

Im also now paranoid as to how many other people she is planting this seed too.

The other colleague is aware I heard this and had apologised to me stating I shouldn’t have had to hear this and not to get upset by it but I am really upset and I feel stupid being upset. It’s such a personal thing to say. I think I’d have coped better with a personal comment about looks or work but to state I’m not trustworthy or be trusted just seems to have cut quite deep.

Should I approach my manager to make him aware? I feel the relationship with said colleague is not workable at this time.

OP posts:
OneFrenchEgg · 18/06/2024 13:37

God people express opinions about colleagues all the time - you'd never get anything done if HR got involved all the time. Sorry it's upset you, I would be annoyed but also wonder why and what prompted the opinion.

Mabelface · 18/06/2024 18:09

If you're on sick leave, work should absolutely not be contacting you about work projects.

AtrociousCircumstance · 18/06/2024 18:12

Have the time off you need but don’t let them squash you that easily! Fight back, internally at least! Fuck them! Go back and claim your job and your space! They’re fuckers and now you know. You’ll be ok.

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