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Interview that left me feeling uncomfortable.

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Islandblue99 · 15/04/2024 17:54

Just that really- I’m not sure anyone can reassure me but (i’m not really young or cool enough to be using this word) it left me with a feeling of “ick”.

Some of you may have seen an earlier post of mine- I’m currently being pushed out of my job so I have a solicitor involved.

I’m frantically searching for jobs in a very quiet job market. I had my first interview for this job and the feedback was that they were thrilled with me. They asked for a second interview to meet another manager and it felt like a very cold reception. She asked at one point if I’d just given a specific answer because the recruiter had coached me to say that (which he hadn’t).

The next step for this process is to travel quite a distance at quite an expense for an in-person interview.

I have interviews set up with two other companies (one is a second interview and one is a first). I have no guarantee, obviously, that any will make an offer but if this company asks me to do the third interview should I go? If it wasn’t for the feeling of desperation and panic I wouldn’t be considering this job.

I have savings to sustain me for about 9 months (although It was hard work saving that and I hadn’t envisioned spending it on survival) but I’m an anxious person and being unemployed is not the best option for me.

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coxesorangepippin · 17/04/2024 18:55

Honestly?

It sounds like they are trying to get information out of you for free! A presentation as well?!

I think the woman who asked you that question is intimidated and feels like she has something to prove -

coxesorangepippin · 17/04/2024 18:57

They are offering to pay but not for accommodation and they’ve stated they’d expect me to do the round trip plus the interview in one day (one very long day

^

Mickey mouse. A reputable company would pay for hotel and transportation

coxesorangepippin · 17/04/2024 18:58

Second prospect sounds great tho

Islandblue99 · 18/04/2024 16:07

Thanks everyone. I’ve done the second interview for the other role and it seemed to go well. I also have another second interview at the end of next week for another company. I’ve delayed the presentation interview for a few weeks ago see if I get any other offers first and in that case I would cancel. If not, I have it as a fall back (and I have an old presentation I might be able to use with very little extra effort needed).

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GingerIsBest · 18/04/2024 17:19

Excellent result. Sounds like you are on track and making the right decisions. No sudden moves, keeping options open etc. Well done!

poetryandwine · 18/04/2024 17:30

Sounds great, OP. Here’s hoping something good works out soon

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