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Honeymoon over, tips needed

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Allwelcone · 28/01/2024 18:58

I've been in post 4 months, been mindful after x2 disasters in 3 years, so confidence at a low ebb.
Small quirky charity, nice staff. Postive feedback, pay rise, so far so good.
But
I was told to answer more enquiries having been recruited as a project manager. Older colleague has been given several of my cases, as she "enjoys" them. Weird but...
Fine.
When I picked up the helpline last week (answering enquiries) it was our boss wanting a chat with said colleague, he was embarrassed as it was obviously a social call.
I realise colleague has been asking him to work on 'my' project and I guess I'm confused as to whether their friendship will threaten my role as supposed project manager.
I now have to have 'coaching' from the colleague, but have also been invited to a role play sessi9n for the project with boss and Grandboss.
Colleague not attending the rile play.

Is this a good sign? What can I do to maximise my chances of getting the project back?
My instinct is to do nothing, watch and wait but is that just bc I have no confidence anymore?
I am very experienced in the arena and when I input on issues this is not always taken seriously as I am now "just" answering enquiries! I am told "this is being taken forward by xyz senior colleagues".

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Allwelcone · 28/01/2024 21:02

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Bibbetybobbity · 28/01/2024 21:14

I think with the coaching and the role playing I’d be looking for a new job- it sounds batshit. And on a more serious note, once your confidence is dented it’s very hard to get it back in the same job.

Allwelcone · 29/01/2024 15:59

@Bibbetybobbity oh I think its a bit soon to be ditching them especially given my past recent history of staying with companies (charities) for little over a year which is the minimum really.
My confidence is only low due to my recent past, its been growing since joining here due to payrise and positive feedback.
But I will monitor the situation for batshitness for sure, thank you .

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