I am 72 and although i only have one child during the last 5 decades i have spent planning through, buying for, preparing and organising Christmas except when i have been in hospital. So... now i am an old lady and yet again lately after cooking meals for my grown up son who live alone and having a pile of washing up to do yet again even with my aches and pains i have decided to CANCEL CHRISTMAS and all future festivals. Why Christmas (and Diwali, Hanukkah and Eid) are cancelled in my household | Nilanjana Bhowmick | The Guardian