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Employee abuse

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Em4891 · 28/03/2023 22:41

For over a year I’ve had to deal with a number of unprovoked outbursts from a fellow colleague.

This has resulted in management being involved and asking me every time to try and be civil.
This colleague has not only had outbursts to myself but, to others also.

I have been asked by management on several occasions if I know her , the answer is no. I only know her as the woman asking me to get her a job at my employment and since then she’s caused nothing but, trouble for me.

It has now reached a new level when I was in my local shop today and saw the colleague. I said hello out of politeness to her re entering the shop screaming at me and swearing, making radical remarks to me that I am the reason she is off work and I have bullied her for 2 years.

None of this outburst made sense whatsoever for a number of reasons.
I work on a completely different department to her .
If I do see her it’s very brief .
Our working hours are very different .
I moved departments as she was one of the reasons I was unhappy in my work place.

I left the shop completely humiliated and shocked, I have called the police to make a statement as the woman is going too far now .

I have tried every avenue I can at work but, she will not leave me alone.

If anyone could off any advice, I would appreciate it.

I love my job and my colleagues but, I feel before long I will be looking elsewhere as she is making my work life and now even out of work life hard.

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Em4891 · 29/03/2023 19:29
  1. I got her a job at my employment , no knowledge of who she is just a mum in a playground asking for a job
  2. I made a complaint in the workplace due to her making false accusations about me, swearing and being aggressive in front of other colleagues
  3. A meeting was held by a manager and we were told to be civil to each other
  4. I spoke with her only last week and we were civil and spoke amicably
  5. No contact of any sort has been since then
  6. Yesterday I said hello , she came back into shop shouting and screaming in front of people. Accused me of bullying her for 2 years and I have caused her to be off work
  7. I have been to police today as it was a unprovoked attack
  8. I am not the only person she has done this to, she has done this I front of the deputy manager to someone else.
  9. I suffered a mental breakdown in January due to workplace issues ( not her)
  10. I have no contact outside of work with her, purely work colleagues
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