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Colleague sending inappropriate messages on FB

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ch3rrycola · 30/06/2019 14:56

If a male work colleague you are "friends" with on FB, I have a few who I work with on my FB, sends you something inappropriate on messenger can my work do anything?

He sent me a voice message, slurring calling me sexy and that my DP is lucky. He also said he'd destroy me xxxxxx

He then on a public post wrote he wanted to see my minge. So glad I was awake to delete it.

This is not a first offence, he has messaged to call me fit in the past and every message ends in kisses.

It escalated due to him being very drunk. I asked him to not speak to me like that and blocked him.

I now have to work alone with him from Wednesday and I'm really not feeling comfortable about it. I have a history of sexual assault and am feeling vulnerable.

I messaged my supervisor as it was a Saturday and she said she will sort this. But can she? As technically it happened outside of work.

He is in his probation period and is already treading a fine line due to not turning up last two weekends due to being too drunk,for 6am start.

Many thanks if you have any advice.

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orangeshoebox · 30/06/2019 14:59

you did the right thing reporting to manager.
now send a message to stop contacting you outside work and unfriend and block.
any more unwanted communication from him - police.

janebond007 · 30/06/2019 15:12

take screenshots so you still have evidence after you block him

This will be important if the behaviour continues

ch3rrycola · 30/06/2019 17:28

Thank you. I have all the screenshots and have sent to my Manager too.

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