Well sex isn't a spectrum, it's binary but most things in life are a spectrum, otherwise known as a normal distribution or a bell curve.
I find it very odd that you talk about being afraid of rigid expectations with this research and then say ...
I am critical of Simon Baron Cohen's theory of systemizing brains and empathizing brains being set on a spectrum.
because they have been shown to be.
The spectrum is people who are very strongly skewed towards systemisation and low on empathy at one end, people who are very high on empathy and low on systemisation at the other, and a mix of people in the middle.
Not only have people been able to measure that but I see it around me in real life all the time.
You could pair any two traits like that and come out with a normal distribution.
I also find it odd that you want to dismiss a piece of research because of how you found out about it. If it was because of who carried it out or who commissioned it, that I would understand.