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Has anyone come across People Changing Minds in school PSHE?

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CyanExpert · 12/09/2026 09:56

People Changing Minds - external resource being used inside schools for PSHE, does anyone know them? They are coming into my child's school and I am curious on their angle.

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CyanExpert · 12/09/2026 10:24

Thanks. I'm curious about what this means on their website:

  1. Understand and comply with the Equality Act 2010, Ofsted and ISI guidance on inclusion and the new RSE curriculum,* *ensuring students with the protected characteristics of sexuality and gender reassignment are not wrongly discriminated against, forgotten about or excluded from the syllabus.
Surely the important thing in the RSE and KCSIE is the issue that you can't teach gender identity as "fact" given it is a contested and political topic?

Anyone with any experience of them coming to their school?

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BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 12/09/2026 10:39

People Change Minds is the inclusion project which helps schools and businesses to improve the lives of LGBTQ+ people.

About Us — People Change Minds: the LGBTQ+ inclusion project

We aim to help create a paradigm shift in the way everyone supports LGBTQ+ people, moving from a reactive approach to a proactive one - acknowledging LGBTQ+ people exist from the get-go (even if they haven’t come out) and changing our behaviour (like the language we use) to reflect that.

The project was founded by Henry Hudson in 2021 and has since gone on to work with staff, students and parents in schools and businesses around the UK. At the heart of all its work is the simple belief that human connection drives social change....

All our work uses what we call the TEA model:

  • explaining contemporary THEORY around sexuality and gender identity, and enabling everyone to under the key issues, rooted in clinical research
  • creating EMPATHY with LGBTQ+ people, showing how issues show up in real life experiences
  • sharing ACTIONS which everyone can take to make their environments more welcoming and supportive for LGBTQ+ people

..…………

My first thoughts:

  • they don't indicate anywhere that I can find if they are a company or a charity. They are an "inclusion project"
  • seems on the face of it to be a one/man band called Henry Hudson
  • not listed under Companies House as "People Change Minds" but their website doesn't give any information as to their actual registered company name (so also cannot search on Charities Commission website)
  • they do corporate and schools work, just like Stonewall

About Us — People Change Minds: the LGBTQ+ inclusion project

https://www.peoplechangeminds.org/aboutus

Theeyeballsinthesky · 12/09/2026 10:40

"Non judgemental"🙄yeah I assume Henry who appears to be the only person working there is very "non judgemental" of anyone who doesn't agree with him that gender identity is a thing. He seems to have mostly worked with schools in the leafier parts of London - Wimbledon, Kingston, Highgate

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 12/09/2026 10:47

I haven't had experience of them, but the model seems very similar to old-school Stonewall, albeit on a much smaller scale. The fact that Henry is going into schools, directly influencing governors and SLTs, as well as workshopping for corporates, and the fact that they have very little information on their website, and their main contact is Henry himself, are all red flags to me.

Where are the accounts and where is the oversight and accountability? If they are not listed on either Companies House or the Charities Commission, this indicates that there is an umbrella company, and I would want to know what that is before I let him into schools.

Lack of info also means no way of checking People Change Minds' networks and connections.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 12/09/2026 10:51

Henry Hudson of People Change Minds at FTL — Families Together London

Henry Hudson of People Change Minds at FTL
We were delighted to welcome Henry Hudson on the 23rd April to Battersea, and how wonderful that this took place in person and not on Zoom.

Henry is an LGBTQ+ Inclusion Speaker and Trainer at People Change Minds. He works with teachers and pupils in secondary schools to create an inclusive environment.

IELA Podcast: Episode 6 LGBTQ+ inclusion in schools | IELA

IELA Podcast: Episode 6 LGBTQ+ inclusion in schools
Posted: 23rd February 2026

Welcome to the very first mini podcast series by the Inclusion, Equity and Leadership Association, also known as (IELA). This series is called The IELA Exchange: Conversations about Inclusion.
In episode 6 we explore LGBTQ+ inclusion in schools.
^^
Host: Gaelle Sullivan, Director of Research, Inclusion and IELA
^^
Guest speaker: Henry Hudson, Director of People Change Minds
[my bold]

Henry Hudson of People Change Minds at FTL — Families Together London

Henry is an LGBTQ+ Inclusion Speaker and Trainer at People Change Minds. He works with teachers and pupils in secondary schools to create an inclusive environment.

https://www.familiestogetherlondon.com/blog/2022/4/25/henry-hudson-of-people-change-minds-at-ftl

CyanExpert · 12/09/2026 10:54

Thanks for all this. I now need to contact the school to lay out my concerns.

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spannasaurus · 12/09/2026 10:59

Privacy Notice
People Change Minds
Henry Hudson trading as People Change Minds

From the privacy notice and ICO registration this appears to be run by Hudson as a sole trader

Has anyone come across People Changing Minds in school PSHE?
BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 12/09/2026 11:00

spannasaurus · 12/09/2026 10:59

Privacy Notice
People Change Minds
Henry Hudson trading as People Change Minds

From the privacy notice and ICO registration this appears to be run by Hudson as a sole trader

Nice detective work! 😀

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BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 12/09/2026 11:12

@CyanExpert The Privacy Notice mentions safeguarding and a Safeguarding Policy, but there doesn't appear to be a safeguarding policy on their website. It may be that he sends it out only to the schools that hire him. I'd want to see it before I let him talk to my child.

CyanExpert · 12/09/2026 11:13

Thank you @BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp your research skills are excellent!. Listening to the podcast which is informative for understanding what he might actually say in the school. I now have excellent points to make to school eg use of census data from 2021 on prevalence of trans which has been discredited, use of suicide statistics, comment on the political context without acknowledging that the Supreme Court FWS was very important for affirming Women's rights.

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BonfireLady · 12/09/2026 11:21

Lots of red flags there. As a parent, I would ask the school to show me the materials that will be used, including the teaching guidance, and to explain how the school has ensured they meet the standards required by the statutory RSE guidance. For example how will they meet this requirement:

70. In teaching this, schools should be mindful that beyond the facts and the law about biological sex and gender reassignment there is significant debate, and they should be careful not to endorse any particular view or teach it as fact. For example, they should not teach as fact that all people have a gender identity...

From the information on their website it sounds like they will be teaching children their own views on this.

CyanExpert · 12/09/2026 11:24

BonfireLady · 12/09/2026 11:21

Lots of red flags there. As a parent, I would ask the school to show me the materials that will be used, including the teaching guidance, and to explain how the school has ensured they meet the standards required by the statutory RSE guidance. For example how will they meet this requirement:

70. In teaching this, schools should be mindful that beyond the facts and the law about biological sex and gender reassignment there is significant debate, and they should be careful not to endorse any particular view or teach it as fact. For example, they should not teach as fact that all people have a gender identity...

From the information on their website it sounds like they will be teaching children their own views on this.

This is absolutely my fear. Is that clip you've quoted from the most recent KCSIE?

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BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 12/09/2026 11:30

This sums up Henry Hudson's angle, I would say:

#lgbtq #lgbthistorymonth | Henry Hudson

Recently, I was talking with a 15-year-old trans boy in school about some of the challenges he was facing, and I asked him: when do you feel happiest?

His face lit up as he told me about how, the week before, he’d been at the bus stop and an older women addressed him as “young man” as she thanked him for letting her get on the bus before him. It was a moment of euphoria and his answer was simple: “I feel happiest when people see me for who I am.”

It’s LGBT+ History Month in the UK, and for the first time in my adult life, I genuinely feel like we have entered a bad period of history where the rights of trans people are being challenged and stripped away by politicians who want to divide us to win votes and distract from their own shortcomings, and where the rights of all #LGBTQ people feel precarious. I am afraid for my community’s safety in the UK, USA and of course globally; it feels like none of of our hard won rights can be taken for granted....

LGBT+ History Month | LinkedIn

LGBT+ History Month | 1,817 followers on LinkedIn. Claiming our past - Celebrating our present - Creating our future | Schools OUT UK is the founded LGBT+ History Month UK, which is celebrated every February across the UK, since 2005. It aims to: Cla...

https://uk.linkedin.com/company/lgbt-hm-uk?trk=public_post-text

Theeyeballsinthesky · 12/09/2026 11:33

I wonder if Henry multiple posh names corporate jobs come from familial links.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 12/09/2026 11:43

#education #inclusion #pride #lgbtq #school | Henry Hudson | 29 comments

And Henry Hudson clearly likes to talk about himself "share" his experiences, so I would be concerned about him influencing very young secondary school students.

[here he is writing about being 18, etc., and about how he is now 30. Along with mentioning "Section 28" of course:

I was bullied and harassed by other students considerably both before I came out and after, and I never really told anyone about it because I didn’t believe it could change.

That harmful environment was the legacy of Thatcher’s pernicious piece of legislation, Section 28, which forbid the “promotion of homosexuality” in schools and was only repealed in England in 2003.]

And here's his "in" (as @Theeyeballsinthesky said, he seems to have started off by making the rounds of his old stomping grounds):

I’ve spent the last two years working with the brilliant leadership team at my old school, Kingston Grammar School, to make the school more inclusive for LGBTQ+ people.

#education #inclusion #pride #lgbtq #school | Henry Hudson | 29 comments

Today is the start of Pride month and this is my story of being gay at school. 🌈👨‍🏫 When I came out as gay age 15, I was the only out kid in a school of about 800 students. I didn’t receive any meaningful education about being LGBTQ+ and my identit...

https://www.linkedin.com/posts/henrycehudson_education-inclusion-pride-activity-6937663349572730880-Vu2E

BonfireLady · 12/09/2026 11:52

CyanExpert · 12/09/2026 11:24

This is absolutely my fear. Is that clip you've quoted from the most recent KCSIE?

It's from this year's statutory RSE guidance.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 12/09/2026 11:52

#lgbtq #mentalhealth #education #inclusion #pride | Henry Hudson | 10 comments

And... there it is! "Pinch me" connections (including Diversity Role Models, who are now run by Stonewall):

[from 2024]

Last Thursday, super-ally Simon Ruddick generously invited us to be a charity beneficiary of a special LGBTQ+ gala performance of Sister Act the musical (habits welcome but not compulsory), run by OKRE with the amazing Matt at LGBT Great.

A real 'pinch me' moment was seeing People Change Minds' logo up there with organisations I respect so much like Terrence Higgins Trust and Diversity Role Models.
[my bold]

#lgbtq #mentalhealth #education #inclusion #pride | Henry Hudson | 10 comments

Woah, last week was a milestone to reflect on where People Change Minds has come in just three years... I set up People Change Minds in 2021 (based on my own experience of poor mental health) to improve the mental health and wellbeing of LGBTQ+ young...

https://www.linkedin.com/posts/henrycehudson_lgbtq-mentalhealth-education-activity-7198940667874525184-Koyx

Theeyeballsinthesky · 12/09/2026 12:00

So he's 30 so born in 1996 and section 28 was formally repealed (though in practice had not been used for many years) in 2003 when he was - checks notes - 7

Give me the confidence of an upper middle class young man...

BonfireLady · 12/09/2026 12:06

BonfireLady · 12/09/2026 11:52

It's from this year's statutory RSE guidance.

Probably would have been more helpful if I'd included a link 😁

Here you go @CyanExpert :

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/relationships-education-relationships-and-sex-education-rse-and-health-education

The pdf for the current guidance is accessible via that link.

See paragraph 70 (the section I quoted) in particular.

Relationships and sex education (RSE) and health education

Statutory guidance on relationships education, relationships and sex education (RSE) and health education.

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/relationships-education-relationships-and-sex-education-rse-and-health-education

BonfireLady · 12/09/2026 12:20

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 12/09/2026 11:30

This sums up Henry Hudson's angle, I would say:

#lgbtq #lgbthistorymonth | Henry Hudson

Recently, I was talking with a 15-year-old trans boy in school about some of the challenges he was facing, and I asked him: when do you feel happiest?

His face lit up as he told me about how, the week before, he’d been at the bus stop and an older women addressed him as “young man” as she thanked him for letting her get on the bus before him. It was a moment of euphoria and his answer was simple: “I feel happiest when people see me for who I am.”

It’s LGBT+ History Month in the UK, and for the first time in my adult life, I genuinely feel like we have entered a bad period of history where the rights of trans people are being challenged and stripped away by politicians who want to divide us to win votes and distract from their own shortcomings, and where the rights of all #LGBTQ people feel precarious. I am afraid for my community’s safety in the UK, USA and of course globally; it feels like none of of our hard won rights can be taken for granted....

His face lit up as he told me about how, the week before, he’d been at the bus stop and an older women addressed him as “young man” as she thanked him for letting her get on the bus before him. It was a moment of euphoria and his answer was simple: “I feel happiest when people see me for who I am.”

This phrasing is key here. It reminds me a lot of how my daughters' school (ex-school for my oldest, who has now done her GCSEs and left) positions it as a kindness and a matter of respect to use language which validates and affirms someone's gender identity.

What this achieves, as demonstrated above, is removing the child from the reality of their sex. "When people see me for who I am".... that sends a shiver down my spine. This is exactly what puts a child onto a pathway of medical transition. A simple mistaken observation from a person who believes this child is a boy has become a reality in the child's mind: "I truly am a boy. I will only be happy when others can see it too".

To validate that mindset through PHSE teaching at school, or permeated across all aspects of school as part of a "respect" approach, is dangerous. That's exactly why social transition is recognised as a safeguarding issue in the KCSIE guidance and why the RSE guidance is clear on never teaching gender identity as fact. I do wish the KCSIE had gone further and said that every child who wants to socially transition is a child at risk of coercion. But what's written in there is clear enough when read alongside the RSE guidance.

Edited for punctuation fail.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 12/09/2026 12:23

Theeyeballsinthesky · 12/09/2026 12:00

So he's 30 so born in 1996 and section 28 was formally repealed (though in practice had not been used for many years) in 2003 when he was - checks notes - 7

Give me the confidence of an upper middle class young man...

His LinkedIn post about turning 30 seems to have been from 2022, so he's closer to 34 now, but still... yes, I can't see how Section 28 would have affected him at all. I assumed it was just the "but...Section 28!" activist mantra we hear so often on FWR.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 12/09/2026 12:33

@BonfireLady it was the "moment of euphoria" bit that struck me as quite sinister. The fact that it wasn't in quotations leads me to assume that this was a Henry Hudson turn of phrase, not the words of the "trans boy" he was writing about. Perhaps they both used it, who knows?

The fact that Hudson is using terminology such as "trans boy" and "euphoria" to me says that either Hudson has learned his craft very well in order to be able to make money from it, or this is what he actually believes (and is choosing to make money from it). Either way, I, for one, would not allow my child to attend a session of his, and I'd be telling the school why.

Myalternate · 12/09/2026 12:50

Do these people ever discuss gay men or lesbians?
Is it always just about trans?

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp. I will never allow my kids to attend a session either.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 12/09/2026 13:20

Myalternate · 12/09/2026 12:50

Do these people ever discuss gay men or lesbians?
Is it always just about trans?

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp. I will never allow my kids to attend a session either.

Hudson talks about being a gay man, so I imagine he must at least touch on those issues occasionally. Of course, it does depend on his definition of "gay" and if he believes that people can change sex (and, therefore, men can become lesbians, for example). To me, that would not qualify as "discussing gay men or lesbians." That would just be more activist nonsense.