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Custody officer job withdrawn for GC beliefs - Gribbon (SP legal team) is his solicitor

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InterrobangsArePureBias · 02/08/2025 11:12

I wonder how many more of such actions will be launched. To adapt Jimmy Doyle’s phrase, “the spectacle of this nation’s [lanyard classes] enforcing moral auto-lobotomy as a condition of entry to [employment]”.

A prison custody officer who was sacked for saying he would not address male-born transgender inmates as ‘she’ or ‘her’ has launched legal action against one of the UK’s largest security firms.
Army veteran David Toshack, 50, was dismissed by GEOAmey during a training course only days before taking up a role as a prison custody officer (PCO) at Kirkcaldy Sheriff Court.
The father of three told a safeguarding workshop that he would not be comfortable using a transgender inmates’ preferred gender pronouns and expressed his belief that a man could not become a woman.
It sparked a horrified reaction from bosses at the firm, which employs thousands of justice workers across the UK, who said his views were against the law and company policy.

He said: ‘I’m just a normal, working class person who’s never been in trouble with the law before, not got a criminal record, lived a good life. I’ve been prepared to go and fight and die for my country, and then I have come back here and been told that there’s certain things you can’t think or can’t say.’

https://archive.is/bxjqC

Original story about David Toshack in Daily Mail: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14963309/Prison-custody-officer-sacked-refusing-call-male-born-trans-prisoners-her.html

I was sacked for refusing to call trans prisoners 'she', says officer

A prison custody officer who was sacked for saying he would not address male-born transgender inmates as 'she' or 'her' has launched legal action against one of the UK's largest security firms.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14963309/Prison-custody-officer-sacked-refusing-call-male-born-trans-prisoners-her.html

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EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 30/01/2026 20:24

gets a soft pass on an agressive response

This is the bit I find absolutely gobsmacking, it's asking to be manipulated.

AnSolas · 30/01/2026 20:29

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 30/01/2026 20:09

I'm not understanding prisoner procedures fully.

Are prisoners always transported individually, in separate vehicles, with 2+ prison officers?

Just wondering if filling the form in with preferred gender (not sex) might mean that a violent TIM could be sharing transport with a female prisoner?

If a TIM has to be addressed using their preferred pronouns to prevent them 'kicking off', couldn't the same logic be used to justify them being transported with other female prisoners?

Another2Cats · Today 13:44
SH collecting prisoners etc
MM typical vehicle ?
SH two prisoners. One driver, other officers

Another poster has pointed out (I think on this thread) that its an ongoing issue.
The Prison "Visitor" report has raised the issue of women being transported with men (not just TW).
and being subject to non-contact sexual abuse.
Plus being left until last as there are more males being transported to different locations

Another2Cats · Today 11:48
MM- on anygiven day in HMPDH, what's the capacity
LL - 53 female prisoners I think

So if the males were up in court and woman too he would be sent along with her.

MyAmpleSheep · 31/01/2026 02:39

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 30/01/2026 20:09

I'm not understanding prisoner procedures fully.

Are prisoners always transported individually, in separate vehicles, with 2+ prison officers?

Just wondering if filling the form in with preferred gender (not sex) might mean that a violent TIM could be sharing transport with a female prisoner?

If a TIM has to be addressed using their preferred pronouns to prevent them 'kicking off', couldn't the same logic be used to justify them being transported with other female prisoners?

If a TIM has to be addressed using their preferred pronouns to prevent them 'kicking off', couldn't the same logic be used to justify them being transported with other female prisoners?

Ah, yes, the women-as-calming-goats role!

They’re prisoners, can’t do much useful, so let’s have the women do something constructive by using them as pacifiers for angry men. Ace.

Another2Cats · 31/01/2026 09:12

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 30/01/2026 20:09

I'm not understanding prisoner procedures fully.

Are prisoners always transported individually, in separate vehicles, with 2+ prison officers?

Just wondering if filling the form in with preferred gender (not sex) might mean that a violent TIM could be sharing transport with a female prisoner?

If a TIM has to be addressed using their preferred pronouns to prevent them 'kicking off', couldn't the same logic be used to justify them being transported with other female prisoners?

"Are prisoners always transported individually, in separate vehicles, with 2+ prison officers?"

They can be, a typical reason might be to attend a hospital appointment for treatment that can't be carried out in the prison.

For example, the recent case of the nurse, Jennifer Melle, who was suspended by a hospital for referring to a trans-identifying man as "he".

The man was a convicted prisoner and would have been transported to the hospital in a separate vehicle, probably a car. Newspaper reports from the time say that he had two prison officer escorts with him at the hospital.

AnSolas · 31/01/2026 10:26

MyAmpleSheep · 31/01/2026 02:39

If a TIM has to be addressed using their preferred pronouns to prevent them 'kicking off', couldn't the same logic be used to justify them being transported with other female prisoners?

Ah, yes, the women-as-calming-goats role!

They’re prisoners, can’t do much useful, so let’s have the women do something constructive by using them as pacifiers for angry men. Ace.

All the women are obliged to provide companionship to prisoners in the general polulation. Long term isolation is a recognised form of torture.

The Irish prison was a clear cut case.
Without a GRC all males including TIMs who have cosmetic alterations go to the male prision system

Male child rapist showed his GRC at sentencing.
IPS has to pretend he is a female.
2 womans prisons he gets sent to the nearest one : Dublin [to the court location so assumption he was local to it]
On assessment cant put him into protective custody (solitary would be torture by the State) for his 5 year term as he is not a known danger to the women and they are not a known danger to him.
[There is a mother and baby unit but no idea how a woman in that unit is provide for re social contact]

To manage the possible risk the IPS assign 2 PO to "shadow" him while he is in contact with the women.

He and the other 2 males were transaferred to Limerick Womens Prison and a GRC "floor" is opened.

And other male was acquitted after admitting rape and torture threats

https://www.irishtimes.com/crime-law/courts/2026/01/14/limerick-child-killer-subject-to-rape-and-torture-threats-from-barbie-kardashian-in-prison/

Barbie Kardashian was not allowed mix with other prisoners on the women's wing of Limerick Prison. Photograph: Getty

Limerick child killer Tegan McGhee was subject to rape and torture threats from Barbie Kardashian in prison

Transgender woman acquitted of making threats to kill or seriously harm Tegan McGhee and a prison officer

https://www.irishtimes.com/crime-law/courts/2026/01/14/limerick-child-killer-subject-to-rape-and-torture-threats-from-barbie-kardashian-in-prison/

ickky · 02/02/2026 10:06

Morning

TT have said the tribunal room is empty atm so a delayed start.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 02/02/2026 10:19

Thanks @ickky I cannot watch the proceedings today so looking forward to reading TT and the posts here.

Another2Cats · 02/02/2026 10:31

Will anybody be posting TT tweets?

From TT

Presumably a new F witness being sworn in by religious oath. A Miss Ross
MR I work for GA for just over a year
MM Do you remeber SW and DT?
MR Yes. I work for Edin High Court doing transport
MM I want to ask u about the 7 Jan session of the training

MM There was an exchange betwn SH and DT.
MR I cant remember who started it but the conversation was about treatment of T. He said he wasnt comfy w that situation
MM What do u remmber him saying
MR we were talking about searches and who searches T ppl [v hard to catch]

MR Talking about those that hadnt transitioned. He said it was silly to ask F Qs of a male. He wasnt aggressive but had a strong opinion. Saying what he believed and what he was going to do
MM What was SH like
MR She was trying to say this is what yr job is despite yr beliefs

MR I cant remember exactly how it ended
MM How did u feel during the exchange
MR We felt it unusual to have such an opinion. Ppl were a bit flabergasted by the opinion and what's going to happen now?
MM Can u remember how SH left the room
MR ??

Another2Cats · 02/02/2026 10:38

MR Ppl were chatting whilst they were out of the room
MM ANd when she returned. Did u hear any convos
MR I cant recall
MM Did SW say anything during the exchange
MR I cant remember anything
MM No further Qs

DH I have some Qs. Yr interactions w ST. U were in the same cohort
DH How did u get on
MR Quite well. Everybody did.
DH There's been evidence ??
MR No
DH About 10 in the cohort? Did anyone else have ? with/to DT
MR Not that I can think of
DH Just before 7 Jan, Mr Hutton was involved.
Yes

DH CH gave egs of his own experience of prisoners, supplementing the training materials. Did he discuss T prsioners
Yes
DH Tiffany Scott
Yes. Were a few stories as quite infamous. They used to self harm so taken to hospital were we'd still w the,

DH Before week 6
MR Yes, mentioned a few times
DH Re Tiffany Scott he mentioned her testicles
MR Vaguely recollect. Yes, was a bit of a giggle
DH That reaction led to a discussion?
MR Nothing I can remember stood out. I'm sure ppl had something to say but I cant remember

RovingPublicEnquiry · 02/02/2026 10:45

Just want to say thank you to everyone who has been posting the TT tweets!

Another2Cats · 02/02/2026 10:45

DH He said it sounded ridiculous. Do u remember that
MR I cant remember word by word what was said. He possibly said it but nothing sticks in my mind. I dont recall the incident

DH 1st sheet in class. She had a powerpoint
MR Yes
DH Do u recollect anything about when the incident started
MR I dont remember what she was saying
DH U didnt consider him to be aggressive but had strong opinions. Anything u remember

MR He was a bit animated
DH [missed]
MR He was starting to sound heated but not to the extent y'd think ughh. That was maybe the point at which s/he left
Dh Was ? a surprise
MR we didnt know what wld happen and expected him to be back at the hotel but none of us seen him

DH Did DT come back into the room
MR He maybe collected his phone but didnt say anything
DH Did u learn that he's had his job terminated
MR Yes, I think back at the hotel
DH Were u surprised by this
MR A little bit. He was a bit forward w his opinions. Maybe ppl took it

as him being a bit less tolerant
DH U work in court sector and fairly new
MR Yes
DH Have u had any T prisoners
MR No
DH U reference the form re interactions w prisoners.
MR They're handwritten
DH There'd be a PER form when delivered to you
MR Yes, we fill out part B

Another2Cats · 02/02/2026 10:55

MR and Part A already filled. Yes, I've completed them. U start writing it immed from taking them in van and fill out welfare every 30 mins
DH Who do u give it to
MR It goes back to the prison. The prison takes 1 copy and we take 2 back
DH Do prisoners see what u write
MR They can't see the paperwork area
DH No further Qs

J Any cross
MM When u take them from prison this part on p551 is alredy filled out
MR Yes
MR [discussing checking form has been correctly completed eg over property]
MM Who fills out part A in the event of ? At 5.2, this wld be the PCO completing? Box for names. U havent dealt w a T prisoner. U would replicate a F name
MR Yes, we copy what's already in

MM But y'd have to fill out if not completed
Yes
MM Completion is as you go through the room
MR ??
MM Does the PER form go w them?
MR Yes They have sev ppl w them during the day
MM Have u written a PER whilst in the back of van w prisoners
Yes

MM No further Qs [apologies but MR had a very strong accent]
J Thank you, you're free to go. The next witness is Mr Hutton? [CH] Can you call him in so that we don't have to wait for the clerk?
MM Mr Sinclair is coming this afternoon [discussion of hearing loop systems]
J Swears CH in

AnSolas · 02/02/2026 11:03

Thanks @Another2Cats

Security issue having a distracted PO with a stabby pen if with prone to violent outbursts (eg Ts) prisoners

MM Have u written a PER whilst in the back of van w prisoners
Yes
MM No further Qs [apologies but MR had a very strong accent]

Another2Cats · 02/02/2026 11:03

J MM will ask u some Qs and then DH and then prob me. Have u seen any SM coverage
CH No
CH Chris Hutton age 48. I've worked for GA for 22 years.
MM You've moved from other suppliers but 22 years
Yes
MM Before that
CH Education custody officer, seconded to help with ?

CH HMPI Ashford.
MM Before Dungable?
CH NEC on ? programme.
MM Yr 1st job w Reliance
CH I was asked if I'd thought about PCO and had an interview at which successful.
MM What was instructors role
CH Set out SPS guidance and ensure was legal
MM With SOPs and policies

CH Yes
MM ANy training
CH Yes, internal and ext agencies.
MM Did Reliance have an ICT? Did the same role
CH Yes, and I taught this
MM Did u focus on any area of training
CH Handcuffing, how to search, then ?,
MM So a variety of modules on ITC

CH I started G4S at ?
MM As an instructor
CH Yes
CH Was the same job and all my time at G4S
MM In 2019 had a new contract w GA. Same job?
CH Yes
MM Still w GA as
CH Instructor. Training manager is John Sinclair. Am called a training officer

Another2Cats · 02/02/2026 11:10

MM Looking at ITC. How many cohorts and trainees in past 12 months
CH Over 200 last year
MM So ITC run all the time
CH back to back
MM Typically take certain modules? How much actual teaching
CH Quite a lot. Depends on the skill set of the instructors available

CH Yes, I also do operational work
MM what sort
CH Most Mondays I operational work for GA. They might ask me to help out. Asst Manager work too. Sent out w the Police to do ? I cover all aspects of the job

MM Has this also been part of the job
CH Yes, always for all employers. To keep yr hand in
MM Do u need reaccreditation
CH Yes, every year. Manager refresher courses every 3 years. And specific training the co may ask for
MM And u need re-accred as a trainer
CH Yes. Various courses

MM Turning now to DTs cohort starting in Nov 2024. You did the EDI training in week 1.
CH Yes
MM On p541, turning over the pages are u familiar w this
CH Yes, I used this with DT
MM The presentation talks about all inclusive and equal, inclusion..

BettyBooper · 02/02/2026 11:10

AnSolas · 02/02/2026 11:03

Thanks @Another2Cats

Security issue having a distracted PO with a stabby pen if with prone to violent outbursts (eg Ts) prisoners

MM Have u written a PER whilst in the back of van w prisoners
Yes
MM No further Qs [apologies but MR had a very strong accent]

I think this witness is talking about being in the back of a prison van (where prisoners are locked in individual cubicles).

The other example given was a complex needs transport, which in my experience is usually a large car like an SUV where PCOs sit in the back either side of the prisoner. Definitely shouldn't have a pen out in that case.

I think MM is comparing apples to oranges here, but could be wrong.

Another2Cats · 02/02/2026 11:17

MM The learning objectives re personal responsibility. The EA
CH Yes
MM Re 25 Nov session. Was there gen discussion re content
CH Yes, it;s a safe place to discuss anything. Discussed Sex orientation as ppl have opinions. Ppl dont take things outside the room

Ch Have to make sure things dont get out of hand
MM So moderate to ensure stays respectful
CH Yes
MM Y're trying to promote discussion Yes
MM How did things unroll
CH Subject got to T ppl. DT thought M amand and a woman a woman. He was bringing his opinion but we quickly moved onto another topic

Nothing untoward.
CH He also said he had his religious belief which he's entitled to. Others have positions on sexual orientation. it was a discussion
MM It was a general discussion
Yes
MM At this session or a subsequent one, was the behav of Tiffany Scott brought up
CH Yes, Someone asked for an eg. How wld u deal with this. Said real name is ANdy Burns but this is how they ID

MM U discussed TS's testicles using she/her that caused mirth or incredulity in the cohort
CH N I dont remember that. It's not something I'd bring up. I dont remember that but TS was discussed

BettyBooper · 02/02/2026 11:18

MM U discussed TS's testicles using she/her that caused mirth or incredulity in the cohort
CH N I dont remember that. It's not something I'd bring up. I dont remember that but TS was discussed

Everyone else seems to remember this....

BettyBooper · 02/02/2026 11:20

Would they genuinely risk assess Tiffany Scott as if he was a woman? If they do they are utterly incompetent and placing staff and prisoners at risk.

If not, they don't actually believe any of this nonsense, so they need to stop pretending they do.

Another2Cats · 02/02/2026 11:25

MM You conclude the EDI
CH At the end of the course, everything discussed stays in the classroom [missed due to accent] Told to come and discuss any issues or concerns.

MM Do you remember ? session
CH Yes
MM Turn to p367. What do u see
CH [missed]
MM At top of page on 25 Nov where the trainee signs. Is this completed by the trainee
CH Yes, have a session w the PCO we check there arent any issues they want us to know about

MM This doc is about interviews of trainee.
CH We sit down w the indiv and have a chit chat. Forms about hire car and courts. Cld be anything at all. A chit chat where we take info down
MM This signature is yrs. Says no problems
CH Yes. There's always a meeting

MM [discussing signatures each week] Is this Mr McGregor? Says good week here. The course evaluation is on this form, the material used.
CH Yes, we'll take feedback onboard
MM Week 4 re techniques. Room a bit small but no problems. Then an interview with you - a good week

CH Yes, control and restraint.
MM week 5 also no problems. Things progressing well
CH Yes
MM On 7 Jan. Did u have any issue w DT before this
CH No. He was a good student
MM How many sessions u taught
CH I cant remember

weegielass · 02/02/2026 11:27

is anyone watching live and can tell me the mood / body language etc?
I'm getting increasingly annoyed at the TT accent bias - get a bloody Scot on your team if its so hard. I know plenty of scottish stenographers through my line of work.

Another2Cats · 02/02/2026 11:32

CH He didnt raise any concerns with me, no
MM Re 7 Jan, was taken by SH. She spoke to you and Pollock. What time
CH I cant recall exactly. I was ? in main office
MM Who did SH approach first. U had a convo w Miss Pollock and SH
Yes

MM She said
CH She was teaching safeguarding and on TGs, she said he said something about them ?? and asked him to fo to the staff canteen
MM Did u respond
CH I was surprised [missed]
MM U were surprised about turn of events. Where did u meet him shortly after

MM Why did it take place here (small room)
CH It was the only room available
MM Someone got DT from the canteen
CH I cant remember who
MM How did he present
CH He looked angry. His face was a bit red.

MM We'll go through this 2 page note. DT takes a seat and u tell him why the mtg is taking place
Yes
MM {reads re not going to lie and going against his beliefs]
CH Yes, thats what I remember
MM You explained re legal obligs and policies
CH Yes, I said that

Another2Cats · 02/02/2026 11:38

MM What law is this
CH SPS says we must treat someone who IDs as F as F. It's the EA
MM WHat does it say
CH Missed
MM You say sex orientation, but thats different
Yes
MM It's yr understanding of the EA
CH Yes
MM He said he also had rights ie GC. Did u understand what he meant

CH At the time I understood that he had religious beliefs about this
MM That was yr understanding
Yes
MM So if they have a GRC, u have to treat them as such. Now look at p220

MM A doc related to TG and non-binary.
CH Yes. I'm famililar w it
MM They are legally recog as their gender w a GRC but you dont need a certificate
CH Yes
MM [reads re policy and how they ID] Legal name must be used

CH ??
MM So yr statement that by law they have to treat acc to GRC but GA policy goes further
Yes
MM He said he would not lie. Did he use the word lie
Yes
MM WHat did u understand he meant
CH He wldnt class a M as a F and wld treat them as M

Another2Cats · 02/02/2026 11:44

MM He was being asked to abide by policy rather than lie
Yes
MM Art 10 allows GC beliefs. Did u understand what he meant by Art 10
CH Missed
MM U said he cld have his beliefs but had to treat ppl the same.
CH Yes I discussed the PER doc. [discussed pronouns]
MM Let's look at the PER

MM On p451, we see [lists name, age etc] If u have a TW who has a F gender and changed to a F name. What do u fill out in Part A
CH I'd expect the F name
MM Wld be affirmed gender but legal M name
Yes
MM what wld u expect. M or F
Female

MM Wld u expect it to be dispatched in that way
CH Yes
MM What things can arise
CH Cld get out on bail, seen to be healthy by the judge [missed]
MM How often does this happen
CH All the time

MM On p452, re reverting to receiving a PER and not walk ins. Who completes Part 2
CH I do
MM Re a TW, what name wld u expect
CH A Female name [missed]
MM Do u know of any incident arising from this form being filled in incorrectly

KeepTalkingBeth · 02/02/2026 11:46

weegielass · 02/02/2026 11:27

is anyone watching live and can tell me the mood / body language etc?
I'm getting increasingly annoyed at the TT accent bias - get a bloody Scot on your team if its so hard. I know plenty of scottish stenographers through my line of work.

Yep this

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