THIS!
This really started to feel sinister if the convention is to move when combined with the total control DU seemed to have over the other staff - psychiatry (ED mentioned knew DU from there before), then A&E, then Anaesthesia (again ED comment). Potentially gathering more support/status with each move. More and more difficult to say no to.
I get it. The BeKind thing. It is good to be positive. I know there are a lot of rotters but most people are decent and want to live-and-let-live... IMO we should have a society where gender diverse people can do their own thing. As long as we all pass the Grainger test with our views then that is OK by me.
BUT Savile, Shipman, Oldham... time and time again we see it. If there is a loophole left, by moving too quickly or blinded by good intention, then someone will seek to use it for their own nefarious purpose.
It is a sad part of human nature and we have a duty to each other to protect everyone from it. No policy should be taken to extremes and safeguarding should always trump EDI unless there is a lot of scrutiny and understanding of changes.