OMG, I've just read the comments that Reddit mods deleted from the r/doctorsuk thread "Patient consent question: is Dr Upton correct not to have to disclose gender to a patient if they've requested a particular gender of clinician"
Thank you to the person upthread who shared the link https://undelete.pullpush.io/r/doctorsUK/comments/1inpif2
The comments are a stark illustration of however kindly you ask a question, it's not sufficiently fawning.
e.g.
110 points21 hours ago
Agree with this, fully appreciate Dr. Upton does not want to disclose their personal life details to every patient, but surely if there is an intimate examination or discussion then that request should be accommodated?
There will be a different life experience particularly with periods, sexual assault, et cetera…
[−]201 points20 hours ago
Their gender is female.
They process emotions and feel as much a woman as you do about your gender - luckily, presumably, your genitals just happened to match at birth...
[−]166 points20 hours ago
I’m not trying to be offensive, but growing up as a woman means you’ll have a different lived experience. I’m not saying that to offend, but if you are born male, you may have no understanding of what I experienced as a girl growing up into an adult female. That difference could matter to a patient, consider young teenagers or women going through menopause for example. I’ve never asked for a female doctor, but that might be somebody else’s choice.
If the request was for a female for religious reasons, would you also have an issue with this?
[-58 points20 hours ago
In this scenario, I think you’re eluding to the fact a biological woman may have had a negative experience with a male during their upbringing?
In that case, the issue this patient has is with seeing a male. Why would that cause an issue if a transgender woman doctor saw them?