As I couldn't log in I couldn't see her response. She's doing a job, 'liking' doesn't come into it. But it's typical of a coercive controller - everything HE doesn't like someone doing is a personal attack on him, not something someone's doing for entirely different reasons (like doing her job as a KC), or wanting a single sex changing room. SP wants a single sex changing room, it's not about him, it's just he's male. Yet Upton has turned it into a personal attack and even on here we're often (not always) going along with this framing.
I think this is a type of abuser in the Freedom programme - maybe the victim? Everything is an attack on him. People using the language they've used their entire lives and just applying according to their perceptions is an attack on him. ('transphobic') etc. At best it's a really unattractive personality trait to turn every single human interaction that doesn't involve someone bowing down before you as an attack or dislike or some other personal thing. Extremely manipulative.
I also thought it was a vaguely threatening remark - if you were unconscious I could put my hands upon you. Honestly, I wouldn't want someone so obsessed about the tiniest perceived personal slight treating me. I'd want someone competent who is focused on my care and dedicated to saving me and doesn't think I'm a transphobic bigot who deserves punishing for using standard English pronouns. Because he's made it quite clear that he thinks people using standard English are transphobic bigots akin to racists and deserve the punishment of slurs at the very least. What is that type of person going to do in that situation when giving 'care' to someone he thinks deserves punishment and thinks is abhorrent? Who knows... i have no confidence he'd behave according to medical ethics, he's already said he wouldn't in other situations.