NC - it's not acceptable for one collg to opt out of that role play is the danger that it will break the spell. It's like emporeror's new clothes. Everyone knows you're a man, everyone can see you're a man, but one voice could break the spell. Taht's why it's so important.
BU - going to have to break this down. There is no immersive role play. Not concerned about ENC moment. Just asking collgs to treat me with respect. I'm not a man. Majority of my collgs don't view me as a man. Either way I don't need external validation of people to know myself and who I am. Even if a number of them don't believe my trans ID is valid, wouldn't change who I am and that we all have to treat each other with basic respect.
NC - treathing you with basic respect includes using she/her, JR said human rights abuse to use masc pronouns?
BU - yes