I had a male ultrasound tech who without any prior warning said it would be best to do an internal ultrasound.
I said I'm not comfortable with that and I couldn't get the words out why because he was 6'+ and I am 4'11 and it absolutely terrified me.
I came out of there and my mum said why didn't you ask for a woman and I thought why should I have to ask for a woman? Why wasn't it offered as an alternative if the imaging was essential? Why was I put on the spot when I was already quite fearful about the possibility of finding out if I've got ovarian cancer? Thankfully I didn't.
I wish I had spoken up and this male ultrasound tech wasn't even cosplaying a woman, but how can medical professionals not see that their sex matters in these situations?
BU is blind to his own impact on others and like it was mentioned in the previous thread Sandie was probably the only one brave enough to speak out but it doesn't mean others were comfortable just because they didn't find their voice.