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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Do women in the U.K. know or care about the threat to women’s and girls rights now they’ve voted labour?

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Heylo · 05/07/2024 07:14

i know the tories record on public services are abysmal and bar some genuine believers like Kemi Badenoch the tories would likely go the trans route if they thought it would buy them votes. But, currently it’s the tories who offered to protect women and girls from the trans madness. My question is - which women voted in trans loving, women - hating Labour?

we can look forward to -

  1. continued gender ideology being pumped out in schools
  2. conversion ban - you better hope your child doesn’t start questioning their gender out loud because TRA ridden schools will be referring them to gender clinics and socially transitioning them now they have a mandate
  3. same sex attracted lesbians (myself included) it’s completely game over. Keep your head down and your mouth shut. Trans identified males and their female allies have already closed down every women only night. Same sex attracted women are now labelled bigots. We are no longer welcome in London’s LGBT soup community
  4. prisons - what happens to vulnerable women? They are already disbelieved and dismissed. Now they have to endure the staring and various forms of sexual harrassment that goes with being incarcerated with men

i can only hope our political landscape mirrors America and in the same way Trump will be voted back in this year, we will have The Tories being led by Kemi back in in 4 years time.

omg I can’t believe we have to kiss goodbye to women’s rights - for the next four years

back to my original question. Apart from TRA idealouges, why have women voted these clowns in? Is it that they prioritise the Tories terrible record on public services over this? Do some women not see it as a huge issue? would love to hear from some posters who voted Labour.

Thanks & stay safe out there, as women we have woken up to a a dark chapter in history today

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MalcolmTuckersSwearBox · 05/07/2024 16:29

midgetastic · 05/07/2024 07:25

Let's just see how this plays out

I mean what were the alternatives- we know you are female sone you can be a second class citizen and no matter what your strengths you belong in the kitchen and we will do absolutely nothing to sort out traditional female problems like chikdcare, caring for the elderly, the disabled, and we know poverty affects women more but we will carry on and make that much worse so even more women are trapped in violent marriages and we will continue to slash the police and justice system so rape becomes de facto legal

But don't worry we know you are female

This.

greengreyblue · 05/07/2024 16:29

Go Keir, excellent speech and great to have a female chancellor and deputy.

Whatever1964 · 05/07/2024 16:30

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/07/2024 16:28

I want all policies to state that women's spaces are for women, not men, regardless of identity. Woman - an adult female human being.

And yet you can't all agree on the practicalities.of this. Are male cleaners? Male children? If so, to what age? I've seen you debate this over and over with no consensus.

Humtum · 05/07/2024 16:30

Helleofabore · 05/07/2024 16:24

I haven't seen you do much more than post weak evidence and tell people they are being 'unkind'. You personally have also attempted to undermine and invalidate other's views.

Most people on this board would support healthy debate. It can be argued that you have not engaged in this way on this thread. Obviously, you think you have.

Aside from the those posts that reference trauma - I DOUBT many people on this thread would publicly stand by their comments on here.

Also, my references have mostly been wiki, EU and scot legislation and parliament EU newsletter. Pretty credible to go by.

Are you gaslighting me...

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/07/2024 16:30

We're not a hive mind, it's just my opinion.

Whyisthatonthefloor · 05/07/2024 16:30

Missmarple87 · 05/07/2024 15:59

If all you've got is a subversion of what I actually said, you definitely can't help me.

Good luck on making some headway with your intersectional feminism. A collection of disparate life experiences will make for a really compelling discourse. I'll stick to my actual, principles based campaigning.

Thanks.

Good luck convincing everyone to agree with you just because, well, you think they should agree with you!

Ramblingnamechanger · 05/07/2024 16:30

Yes. There is absolutely no reason why men should be allowed into women’s facilities/ sports or anything else . How this has become something we have to argue about is entirely due to the men wanting to do so, and trying to divide and rule at the same time.

Sloejelly · 05/07/2024 16:31

Whatever1964 · 05/07/2024 16:27

Considering there are posters like @Helleofabore endorsing the idea of sex verification in sports (which involved examinations hence me asking if she actually had read up on the process) that's why I'm asking how you want people to prove their sex

Do you know how drug testing is done in sport?

Sloejelly · 05/07/2024 16:32

greengreyblue · 05/07/2024 16:29

Go Keir, excellent speech and great to have a female chancellor and deputy.

I don’t care about the sex of his chancellor and deputy. I care if they are any good.

Humtum · 05/07/2024 16:32

Ramblingnamechanger · 05/07/2024 16:30

Yes. There is absolutely no reason why men should be allowed into women’s facilities/ sports or anything else . How this has become something we have to argue about is entirely due to the men wanting to do so, and trying to divide and rule at the same time.

Whats your views if a man has transitioned and has lived as a trans women for say - two years for arguments sake.

Helleofabore · 05/07/2024 16:33

Whatever1964 · 05/07/2024 16:10

Because you're insisting on same-genital spaces and propose challenging people you suspect don't have those genitals even if that person isn't doing anything and you have a bad track record of getting it right. You don't like when people point out that you're obsessed with genitals, but you are.

What a dishonest post.

Same genitals? Do you mean same sex?

Because 'genital' presentation alone does not 100% mean that all people in that sex have the same body variation. You seem to be using medically incorrect concepts to misrepresent other's points here.

And to portray women as being 'obsessed' with genitals because they are discussing the prioritisation of sex over gender when sex matters is just another emotionally manipulative tactic.

radiatorbed · 05/07/2024 16:34

Humtum · 05/07/2024 16:32

Whats your views if a man has transitioned and has lived as a trans women for say - two years for arguments sake.

He is still a man!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/07/2024 16:35

And to portray women as being 'obsessed' with genitals because they are discussing the prioritisation of sex over gender when sex matters is just another emotionally manipulative tactic.

It sure is. Wasted on us, I'm afraid. Childish gotchas and debate tactics might wash on Twitter or Reddit or whatever but they don't here.

Helleofabore · 05/07/2024 16:35

Humtum · 05/07/2024 16:32

Whats your views if a man has transitioned and has lived as a trans women for say - two years for arguments sake.

They are a male person who has a gender identity who has lived their life as a male person with a gender identity for two years.

A transwoman is not a woman. A male person cannot become a female person nor can they ever live as a female person. It is just not possible. They can only live their life in a way that they believe a female person lives, but that is only a concept that they have in their mind.

Humtum · 05/07/2024 16:36

Sloejelly · 05/07/2024 16:32

I don’t care about the sex of his chancellor and deputy. I care if they are any good.

We've come full circle - apply this to the posts on health professionals.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 05/07/2024 16:36

Whyisthatonthefloor · 05/07/2024 16:25

Ironically, I was a fairly androgenous kid and there were plenty of times I was called "son" or indeed asked if I was in the right toilets. I said "no I'm a girl" and that was it. No one was on high alert back then because when it comes to sex and gender the idea that it was ok to lie what you want had not been popularised by TRAs.

GNC women have been being hassled and threatened in female spaces for decades because of homophobia.

The thinking goes

‘manly women=dyke=pervert=looking at me=a threat to me’

I have literally never seen this. I'm not saying it doesn't ever happen - it's a big world with a lot of people in it and most things happen somewhere - but most women I know have no issue peeing or indeed changing with lesbian women so the idea that "dykes" are seen as a threat in the toilet is just - very unusual.

The idea that trans women's well publicised expectation to use fenale facilities is leading to more women being challenged is sadly more plausible to me (though again I've not seen it in person) but to reiterate my previous point, this is because the action and entitlement of trans women has broken the trust within theoretically fenale-only spaces. It's not an argument in favour of including male people as a matter of course, it's exactly the opposite - an argument for re-establishing the boundaries and trust we used to have.

And of course, the importance of the existence and legitimacy of the female sex as a social, legal and political group that excludes all male people regardless of their identity is far more than simplistic soundbites about toilets and genitals.

Trans people may exist, but so do female people and we have the right to our own name, our own spaces, our own history, our own experiences and our own voice separate to male people.

Shortshriftandlethal · 05/07/2024 16:37

Whyisthatonthefloor · 05/07/2024 13:21

Disability is not an identity....it is a physical fact.

https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/identity

Your identity is who you are. It isn’t a belief.

I didn’t say ‘I identify as severely disabled’ I said “my identity as severely disabled…”

I am a woman. That is a part of my identity. I am disabled. That is another part. They are both equal physical facts.

But what makes them women rather than men, in the first instance, is their sex.

Who are these ‘them’?

A woman is an adult human female.

I am aware of that fact thanks.

Identity in the psychological sense is not about traits or characteristics - but about the integrated centre that holds the personality together. Our identities are not fixed; they shift and evolve according to time, experience and circumstance.

A fixed identity is like a performance, when one becomes overly invested in a role or a particular version of the self. That is how I see trans identities. They have to be performed, and validated by others continually.

Sloejelly · 05/07/2024 16:38

Humtum · 05/07/2024 16:32

Whats your views if a man has transitioned and has lived as a trans women for say - two years for arguments sake.

He is still a man.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/07/2024 16:39

We've come full circle - apply this to the posts on health professionals.

Rachel Reeves isn't going to give me a smear test, but if she did, I'd prefer that over Starmer doing it.

radiatorbed · 05/07/2024 16:41

Humtum · 05/07/2024 16:36

We've come full circle - apply this to the posts on health professionals.

Have you not got the wit to understand how these two jobs are different and why sex may matter in one situation and not in the other? 🙄

wincarwoo · 05/07/2024 16:41

Sloejelly
I don’t care about the sex of his chancellor and deputy. I care if they are any good.

We've come full circle - apply this to the posts on health professionals.

@Sloejelly that's false equivalence a chancellor is not going to be performing intimate examinations. Surly you get that?

Sloejelly · 05/07/2024 16:42

Humtum · 05/07/2024 16:36

We've come full circle - apply this to the posts on health professionals.

I can’t remember the last time a chancellor touched me, examined me, required me to undress, asked me personal details.

However, I would not say any chancellor was a good chancellor if they did not understand the difference between sexes and the impact of this on people’s lives.

Whatever1964 · 05/07/2024 16:42

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/07/2024 16:30

We're not a hive mind, it's just my opinion.

Yes but if you're agreeing it's a key political policy then you have to have an idea of a policy. What's yours?

Helleofabore · 05/07/2024 16:43

Whatever1964 · 05/07/2024 16:21

Again you're just ignoring the invasion of privacy and upset of walking up to a stranger trying to take a piss or deal with their period or a miscarriage or all the other things you point out women deal with in toilets and being asked what sex they are! When they aren't bothering you in any way and no doubt you're asking someone you don't believe looks feminine enough.

No female people are being asked 'while they are dealing with their period or miscarriage'. Female people are being asked when they are in the public space.

Your posts are just using hyperbolic and emotive language now.

No one denies that female people in the past or now will be asked if they are in the correct toilet by other female people. The point is that they would be less likely to if other female people felt confident that no male people would be entering the space.

Many female people have reported to us that they have indeed been asked. I, personally, experienced it as a child. And many female people have also told the people asking that they are glad to be asked because it means that those people asking are trying to make the toilet's as safe as they can for other female people.

Whyisthatonthefloor · 05/07/2024 16:44

FlirtsWithRhinos · 05/07/2024 16:36

I have literally never seen this. I'm not saying it doesn't ever happen - it's a big world with a lot of people in it and most things happen somewhere - but most women I know have no issue peeing or indeed changing with lesbian women so the idea that "dykes" are seen as a threat in the toilet is just - very unusual.

The idea that trans women's well publicised expectation to use fenale facilities is leading to more women being challenged is sadly more plausible to me (though again I've not seen it in person) but to reiterate my previous point, this is because the action and entitlement of trans women has broken the trust within theoretically fenale-only spaces. It's not an argument in favour of including male people as a matter of course, it's exactly the opposite - an argument for re-establishing the boundaries and trust we used to have.

And of course, the importance of the existence and legitimacy of the female sex as a social, legal and political group that excludes all male people regardless of their identity is far more than simplistic soundbites about toilets and genitals.

Trans people may exist, but so do female people and we have the right to our own name, our own spaces, our own history, our own experiences and our own voice separate to male people.

I agree with you on the female spaces stuff.

Im just adding that GNC women ARE hassled in female spaces, and were for a long time before trans women started wanting our spaces.

Homophobia is very real- for me it started at school when i wasn’t allowed to change in the same room as the other girls because they had complained to their parents who had kicked off with the school. My presence made them uncomfortable so I had to change separately. I have a friend that had the same at school.

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