This is a really good point, Foxblue.
It's daft to blame the popularity of toxic stereotypes of masculinity on criticism of toxic stereotypes of masculinity. I keep hearing 'toxic masculinity' being presented as a woke attack on men. It's as if some people think that men can't be anything but toxic.
Criticising 'toxic masculinity' i.e. the worse possible stereotypes connected with being male, is actually a defence of males, not an attack on them.
It's making sure that little boys have a wider idea of what being a man is, than the stereotypes of angry, violent, misogynistic men, glorified by the likes of Tate.
What's 'woke' about teaching boys that violence and hatred is wrong, and that there are other ways to be male, like for instance just being a decent caring human being?
Excusing, or worse still glorifying toxic masculinity cheats little boys out of a whole range of different ways of being male.