Bit of a Terfy answer from Pamela in the Guardian 😁[[https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/article/2024/jun/18/i-want-love-and-intimacy-but-i-am-struggling-with-my-sexual-identity https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/article/2024/jun/18/i-want-love-and-intimacy-but-i-am-struggling-with-my-sexual-identity]]