Helen writes beautifully.
My 2pence would add....I wish therapists would treat the minds of people suffering gender dysphoria, as the problem lies within the minds NOT the body. If we can somehow get gender confused people to accept their natal sex but express themselves however they wish/wear whatever clothes they like etc but accept their sex, then no one would need to have surgical intervention....
We don't agree with anorexics that they are too fat-we treat their minds. We don't agree with depressed people that their lives are meaningless and they should end it-we treat their minds.
Why is mental health not treated in people with gender dysphoria?