So am I just a prop belonging to the males of this world, or what? If so, why am I paying taxes?
Yes. We're supporting actors in the drama of life as it is lived by the main and important characters who drive the plot.
How foolish of us to think otherwise.
When I was little, abuse in children's homes was well known, as was the seniority and social status of the people involved in it. It's one of the many reasons that there didn't seem to be any point in referring children to Social Services or similar because you were just transferring children from one foul set of circumstances to another.
About 3 years ago, I finally saw a story in the Daily Mail about a woman who is a contemporary of mine and from a nearby area. It had taken decades to get official acknowledgement that the leading member of the Home Office who was in charge of that 'Home for Wayward Girls' was an active organiser of the abuse there.
It has been happening in plain sight and never stopped. And it's still permitted now with so many people pretending that it's not true, or exaggerated, or women are being hysterical…