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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Ramla Ali has set up a women only club

26 replies

endofthelinefinally · 09/09/2021 22:51

Primarily aimed at Muslim women and women who have been sexually assaulted.
It is a great initiative. I can't help worrying that it will run into difficulties when other people demand to be admitted.

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vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 09/09/2021 23:06

Is it a club like a gym? Or a social club?

endofthelinefinally · 09/09/2021 23:08

Oh, sorry, it is a boxing club/gym. Just watched an interesting item about it on channel 5 news.

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GreyhoundG1rl · 09/09/2021 23:08

If it's aimed at Muslim women it'll be a fucking travesty if it's not allowed to remain female only.

endofthelinefinally · 09/09/2021 23:09

Ramla spoke eloquently about how important women only spaces are for these women and how few there are.

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endofthelinefinally · 09/09/2021 23:10

I just thought - uh oh...

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vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 09/09/2021 23:11

Curves is female only, isn't it? But, circuits rather than boxing.

Fantastic. Good for her.

endofthelinefinally · 09/09/2021 23:11

Sorry, it is BBC2. DH changed the channel.

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endofthelinefinally · 09/09/2021 23:13

Some of the women there were interviewed and said how much it meant to them. I really, really hope they can keep it as it is.

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EsmaCannonball · 10/09/2021 06:29

Well, there is that middle-aged white guy who not only identifies as a woman but as a Muslim woman, and who not only identifies as a Muslim woman but as an oppressed Muslim woman. I'm going to say, though, that even the most crazed transactivist would be savvy enough to recognise that demanding entry to this space would be terrible PR.

umbel · 10/09/2021 06:39

“… even the most crazed transactivist would be savvy enough to recognise that demanding entry to this space would be terrible PR.”

It’s never stopped them before though!

Jaysmith71 · 10/09/2021 08:50

.....Well:

endofthelinefinally · 10/09/2021 09:06

Oh.

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Jaysmith71 · 10/09/2021 09:31

But, cross-threading, see how relatively tiny, marginalised and oppressed Paris Lees is in that ad.

VladmirsPoutine · 10/09/2021 10:49

I'm going to say, though, that even the most crazed transactivist would be savvy enough to recognise that demanding entry to this space would be terrible PR.

I think this to be true particularly in this circumstance.

NonnyMouse1337 · 10/09/2021 11:31

All the best to their female only club. I hope it stays that way and that the gender zealots leave them alone.

Lawyers on both sides are waiting for a test case though. I think if a female only space/service was set up, and a male with a GRC demanded to be allowed to use it, then there's potential for a court case to prove the single-sex exemptions apply, even with a GRC.

BelleOfTheProvince · 10/09/2021 14:20

Great news. Boxing is such a good way to keep fit, but obviously including men in sparring carries an unacceptable level of risk to women.

I hope they get to keep it that way. It could play such an important part in the community and women's lives. The support you find in these sort of things bleeds into other aspects of people's lives and breeds true solidarity and friendship.

KittenKong · 10/09/2021 18:54

Well I hope it stays women only - especially since it’s a contact sport.

Mochudubh · 11/09/2021 16:26

@Jaysmith71

But, cross-threading, see how relatively tiny, marginalised and oppressed Paris Lees is in that ad.
Apart from Katie Piper I didn't know who the other two were till now but had no idea that the blonde wasn't born female. She's one of the few trans women I think truly "passes".
FloralBunting · 11/09/2021 17:09

had no idea that the blonde wasn't born female. She's one of the few trans women I think truly "passes".

Cosmetic surgery, good lighting and gender performance can certainly fool the eye for a few, yes. 'Tis very 'authentic self', innit?

Jaysmith71 · 11/09/2021 17:27

The face passes, but she's masive and the muscular torso is male.

titchy · 11/09/2021 17:34

She doesn't pass if you see her walking down the road in real life. Make up, facial surgery and clever camera angles are what enable her to pass.

DialSquare · 11/09/2021 17:50

There's a reason that Paris is sitting down when appearing with the other two in the same shot.

KittenKong · 11/09/2021 18:52

The same way that Madonna passes as a 20-something year old (I didn’t recognise her in her recent birthday photos).

KaycePollard · 11/09/2021 19:38

Cosmetic surgery, good lighting and gender performance

and youth. Middle-aged or older transwomen don't pass.

Mochudubh · 12/09/2021 10:06

To be fair to myself, I haven't paid that much attention to the ad previously (I buy my toiletries in Poundland). So I've not been interested enough to Google who they were.

I'll watch it with new eyes next time it's on.😲