I'm GC, my H is TWAW, this isn't about our relationship, I'm already leaving him.
We had another discussion last night which started out about TW in women's prison. Several times he told me I'm just being a biological determinist.
For me I understand that my biology determines that I am female and that, in turn, determines my role in reproduction. It also means that certain stereotypes and expectations are 'given' to me because of my biology. It doesn't mean that I have to fulfil those expectations or act according to those stereotypes.
So what do TRA's mean the way they use this phrase? He clearly sees it as a way to tell me I'm a shit person in some way, like a gotcha but tbh I don't really understand. I know some of you will be able to help by explaining it to me. Thanks 