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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

The women we jail for fighting back

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FindTheTruth · 26/05/2021 07:50

Article by Julie Bindel today
unherd.com/2021/05/the-women-we-jail-for-fighting-back/

EXTRACTS:

"Fri killed her partner, Kyle Farrell, during a violent row in which he had attempted to strangle her. She had been out visiting a friend and when she got back Kyle complained that she was later than he expected."

"When sentencing, the judge told Fri to stand and addressed her sternly"

"Fri’s best friend was devastated. “He didn’t mention the strangling when he sentenced her. The judge praised Kyle as a brilliant father, but he kicked her in the stomach when she was pregnant. Why not let her come home to her kids?”"

"As Jane Monckton Smith outlines in her brilliant book In Control: Dangerous Relationships and How They End in Murder, domestic violence can be stopped in the early stages if police and prosecutors do their jobs effectively."

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OhHolyJesus · 26/05/2021 08:00

Jesus Christ.

The judicial system is so pitted against women. It's disgusting and my faith in the police is completely eroded.

I'm so sad for Fri. Bloody fuming in fact.

UppityPuppity · 26/05/2021 08:25

Awful. The hypocrisy and blindness of our judicial system is frightening.

Whatsnewpussyhat · 26/05/2021 09:07

Why is it that men will find any reason to make an acceptable excuse when a man murders a woman but if a woman kills a man, no matter how much of an evil bastard he is, is suddenly painted as a fucking saint.
'Wouldn't hurt a fly' - strangled his wife
'He was having a bad day' - mass shooting

America is worse for this, especially when they are changing laws enabling them to treat any woman or girl who needs an abortion worse than a serial killer.

Whatsnewpussyhat · 26/05/2021 09:11

*HE is suddenly painted as a fucking saint

nevernotstruggling · 26/05/2021 09:23

This is never ending isn't it. I hope Fri is closer than ever to family life. I wish her well x

Hestyo · 26/05/2021 09:40

Fuck that judge. Poor woman.
You think of the light sentences men get for murdering their partners during "sex gone wrong". Or that cricketer who poured bleach down his wife's throat but wasn't initially jailed because he lied about being signed by some cricket team. And then you see this. Multiples rapes, DV and strangulation, and she strikes back and stabs him - once, not even repeatedly - and is put away for about a decade. Poor kids too.

Thecatonthemat · 26/05/2021 09:55

Yes the making excuses for men is so obvious. I feel sick when I see the words family man or great father in this context. And women always get longer sentences..

Whatsnewpussyhat · 26/05/2021 10:00

Stalkers, attackers and rapists being excused in case it 'ruins their life' or hurts their career.

ArabellaScott · 26/05/2021 10:00

Long article with lots of back story: www.theguardian.com/society/2019/oct/31/intimate-terrorism-domestic-abuse-coercive-control-farieissia-martin

happydappy2 · 26/05/2021 12:11

It is horrific, all I can suggest is, if you have time, volunteer as a magistrate....we need more women on the bench who might be more sympathetic to the violence women suffer at the hands of their male partners. Or If yr clever enough, train as a lawyer & represent these women!

NiceGerbil · 26/05/2021 22:00

This case is terrible.

The reporting I've seen on it is very much presenting it as wtf. So that at least is good- that it's been picked up and the press are reporting what's happened as a bad thing.

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