Good point Valancy
I'm becoming more and more aware of the automatic virtue signal and disclaimers that women feel compelled to make. I'm starting to intentionally look for them in everything. Women have to be so consciously careful and so coy in saying anything at all that may bruise feelings, in order to be permitted to speak at all.
It reminds me of the automatic lowering of the eyes traditionally required of servants when their betters walked by, with consequences for failing to do it properly or fast enough.