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Man marries a sex doll...why am I surprised

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ApplaADay · 30/11/2020 23:15

Heard of this? A man by the name of Yuri Tolochko...

instagram.com/Yurii_tolochko

(Prepare to wretch if you look at his Instagram) ...has married a sex doll. Looking at his IG he also appears to have a cross-dressing sexual fetish and considers himself an "alpha male".....yum! The last muscle man I recall publically declaring himself an alpha male was "War Machine" who beat his then gf Christy Mack to near death.
How is this man allowed?

I have noticed a trend of men in forums declaring how they would rather a sex doll of sex robot than a woman. What's up with hating women so much that you want to replace them with rubber but then going and having that rubber moulded to look like the thing you hate so much.......!?

Side note: re the cross dressing aspect I have brought up, I take issue with cross dressing males who fetishize women's clothing - i do not have a problem with transgender people. I recognise genuine transgender people as a vulnerable group in need of protection as with many other groups.

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PotholeParadies · 30/11/2020 23:50

Is he going to be totally faithful to the doll, as would be expected in any other marriage?

If so, then I won't worry about his lifem

StillAHarpie · 30/11/2020 23:58

New poster, provocative thread, late at night - check Hmm

Reported

boatyardblues · 01/12/2020 00:33

Just in case this doesn’t get zapped...

Dear Sex Doll,

Thank you for taking one for the team.

Yours, Boaty

frayday · 01/12/2020 00:37

@StillAHarpie why is it provocative. If that's what he likes then isn't it better he is with a doll than making a real woman's life miserable. I don't get it personally but don't feel like I'm in a position to judge. I know a lot of people wouldn't be happy with my life

StrippedFridge · 01/12/2020 00:40

Married to a sex doll. Alpha male. In his dreams.

NiceGerbil · 01/12/2020 00:41

Why is it provocative?

There's been stuff on the telly about men in love with 'realistic' sex dolls for ages.

The idea access to a doll protects real people in naive in the extreme though.

Fuzzmutt · 01/12/2020 00:49

They seem ideally suited, I wish them every happiness.

Meowmeow2020 · 01/12/2020 01:15

@boatyardblues

Just in case this doesn’t get zapped...

Dear Sex Doll,

Thank you for taking one for the team.

Yours, Boaty

Haha but so true
ThatIsNotMyUsername · 01/12/2020 08:11

I saw that. He seems to talk to it and it answers him. He is not a stable man...

TartrazineCustard · 01/12/2020 08:17

Haha - my favourite part of this is that it ensures he won't be accidentally knocking up any actual women. Darwinism in action!

ThatIsNotMyUsername · 01/12/2020 08:18

If that was my brother... I’d be sorely templated to hide dolly and say she’d run away with a department store mannequin. But I’m mean like that.

I assume he is just wanting fame?

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 01/12/2020 08:20

What's up with hating women so much that you want to replace them with rubber but then going and having that rubber moulded to look like the thing you hate so much

Men like this don't hate women. They hate non-compliant women.

ThatIsNotMyUsername · 01/12/2020 08:23

He can’t handle a real woman? I suspect he can’t handle real men either. He’s probably not a people person at all. I don’t even suspect he could manage a pet. Things with opinions and own ideas...

powershowerforanhour · 01/12/2020 08:55

I hope for his sake he got a basic model cos the more advanced ones have machine learning capabilities haven't they? One idle afternoon on MN and she'll lawyer up and LTB.

ThatIsNotMyUsername · 01/12/2020 08:56

I suspect she had a higher IQ to start with (me-owwwww)

Mrsjayy · 01/12/2020 09:00

There has been entire documentaries about men like this I don't know what to think but If he is shagging pvc then at least he is leaving actual women alone.

MaudTheInvincible · 01/12/2020 09:05

@powershowerforanhour

I hope for his sake he got a basic model cos the more advanced ones have machine learning capabilities haven't they? One idle afternoon on MN and she'll lawyer up and LTB.
GrinGrinGrin
MaudTheInvincible · 01/12/2020 09:08

At least he's aware of his inadequacy on some level, and isn't inflicting himself on women. Good.

MyOwnSummer · 01/12/2020 10:06

I started a thread a while back after reading an article about these things that made me almost puke over my keyboard. There was some great discussion and points raised by those that commented.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4054824-Guardian-Article-about-lifelike-sex-dolls

These things are grim beyond belief, and I worry about the mentality of a person who would (a) have one (b) go on the actual news to talk about it. How detached from reality do you have to be to not realise or care what this makes you look like? It is beyond fucked up.

Mrsjayy · 01/12/2020 10:09

They see it as a lifestyle choice

ThatIsNotMyUsername · 01/12/2020 10:13

In ye olden days you’d do this in the privacy of your own bedroom...

EminyBOO · 01/12/2020 10:15

Just be grateful he has married a sex doll and not a woman he intends to treat as a sex doll.

aliasundercover · 01/12/2020 10:37

I don’t really see the problem if he’s happy and he isn’t doing anyone any harm.

As boatyardblues suggests the doll is stopping him from inflicting himself on some poor woman. That seems like a positive result to me.

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 01/12/2020 11:01

They are scary too in how young they look/are dressed.