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help out a woman being harrassed on FB

33 replies

fatblackcatspaw · 22/08/2020 10:07

hello this woman because she was gender critical on FB is being harrassed by this bloke on facebook if you use facebook can you report this man's account for harrassment? If you look at her thread the police were not being overly helpful. twitter.com/fatblackcatspaw/status/1296929941905432581

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teawamutu · 22/08/2020 10:12

Saw this on Twitter last night. Utterly disgusting.

fatblackcatspaw · 22/08/2020 10:20

I thought the police response appauling another check your thinking... what kind of world do we live in?

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ByGrabtharsHammerWhatASavings · 22/08/2020 11:22

Good luck getting Facebook to give a shit. I spent a good chunk of yesterday reporting a man on Facebook who was repeatedly doxxing and making sexual threats towards a woman who he cheerfully described as "Karen gone wild" whose crime seemed to be asking him to either provide the goods he sold he, or refund her the money she paid. He was posting messages between them which included her full name, email, and Instagram handle. Him and the other commentors on the thread were all having a good laugh over how she needed a shag, or a vibrator, instead of the goods she'd ordered. I reported all the posts to Facebook and to the admins of the group but apparently doxxing and degrading sexual language don't violate Facebook community standards. Like 99% else of the Internet, it's a cesspit of misogyny.

ChaChaCha2012 · 22/08/2020 11:31

She's not being GC, she's being transphobic. There is a line and she crosses it continually.

He shouldn't harass her. She shouldn't be posting hate material.

Looneytune253 · 22/08/2020 11:45

She is the one being unreasonable from what I can see

DioneTheDiabolist · 22/08/2020 11:58

Are you asking Mnetters to harass him OP?Confused

FlySheMust · 22/08/2020 12:08

He shouldn't be harrassing her and encouraging others to. He should report and let twitter deal with it.

Babysharkdoodoodood · 22/08/2020 12:17

She's not transphobic at all. FFS most of her retweets I've also retweeted.

donquixotedelamancha · 22/08/2020 12:27

I can't see any transphobic posts from her, but nor can I see anything which would be worth reporting to facebook. The screenshots the TRAs and her are posting seem very minor.

That said, it does seem he has phoned her and commented on every post she made for a while. That's creepy and clearly harassment but not something the police can stop.

I'd be interested to see links to the alledged transphobia or the worst stuff she's been sent.

Are you asking Mnetters to harass him OP?

No, OP is asking us to report abusive or threatening posts. If there are some, I will happily do so, as I would report actual transphobic posts.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 22/08/2020 13:08

From his fb he appears to be the kind of appalling woke twat who goes around trying to get minimum wage workers sacked for the power trip and cookies but I don’t see how we are going to make things better for the poster by reporting his FB posts so far. He is indeed harassing her imo but not in a way FB would care about. It’s worth noting that the police have indeed told him to leave her alone - their response isn’t all one way.

SocialMedea · 22/08/2020 13:35

What were the transphobic things said?

Were they that bad that you'd not be allowed to repeat them here on Mumsnet?

(This site is very strict about that sort of thing, probably stricter than facebooks I'd wager.)

Fairenuff · 22/08/2020 15:34

On his fb page -' Edit: police rang me and said I can no longer ring her business or message her...'

So looks like it will stop now.

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 22/08/2020 18:17

@SocialMedea

What were the transphobic things said?

Were they that bad that you'd not be allowed to repeat them here on Mumsnet?

(This site is very strict about that sort of thing, probably stricter than facebooks I'd wager.)

I’d like to know as well
thehumanformerlyknownasfemale · 22/08/2020 19:19

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RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 22/08/2020 23:06

Oh this is just getting silly

What did human say?

I don’t remember reading anything awful...

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 22/08/2020 23:14

Do you know what

Sometimes

When I’m on a thread on FWR i take a photo of my post in case its deleted

How fucking sad is that!

Thats what this moderation system is doing to an extremely boring know nothing poster that posts innocuous drivel

I now have to keep a record or such drivel Grin

(Did it occur to me to take a Picture of Roz? Did i fuck, cos who the hell would report a cartoon character)

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 22/08/2020 23:14

See

help out a woman being harrassed on FB
RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 22/08/2020 23:14

Think on...

TorkTorkBam · 22/08/2020 23:19

Now we can see your other open tabs Rufus.

To MNers that might be better than seeing someone's shopping list.

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 22/08/2020 23:20

Oooh yeah tork

Those cushions are awfully nice though

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 22/08/2020 23:22

Getting a new sofa

help out a woman being harrassed on FB
thehumanformerlyknownasfemale · 22/08/2020 23:24

I posted a screenshot of what the woman supposedly said wrong, with the harrassers name scribbled out to be decent.

The link to the twitter I took the screenshot from is in the fucking opening post Confused

Or was it because I called them misogynists? We not allowed to acknowledge that anymore? On a feminist board?

Deliriumoftheendless · 22/08/2020 23:24

They ARE nice, Rufus.

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 22/08/2020 23:26

They are delirium

Marksies....will just wait patiently for a 20% off voucher and then I’ll pounce

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 22/08/2020 23:27

Well thats what i thought human

Maybe if you ask nicely they will let you know why they deleted?

On the obviously RARE times ive been deleted (cartoon characters aside) theyve told me why