The difference in attitude to
- women doing the work of maintaining the human race
and
- men associated with the work of killing those humans who might be a threat.
I'm thinking of US military Reservists who have to "report for duty" (note: not "take time off" or "be furloughed") for two or more weeks a year.
Family care, at least when women do it, is just this huge drag on the company which women really should be figuring out how to stop doing.
Military service: admirable. Laws to prevent companies from dinging, in any way, the workers who "serve." Etc etc etc
And yet one of the repeat stories out of lockdown was the mindboggled amazement from men trying to do the right thing. Taking care of toddlers takes skill, perseverance, and patience! Home schooling is next to impossible! How do teachers do it??
But, after that brief flare of recognition, we seem to be sinking right back into free-riding on women's work, while men publish more papers, get more promotions, get less laid off, and get more raises.
Funny how that works. By which I mean not funny.