Hey DarkNoise, I seem to be following you around - it’s not intentional 
They are MN mod’ing rules. We did revolt at the time. It was a compromise that MN made. Terms we (GC) found unacceptable were also banned ie terf, cis, and other (TRA) terms were banned TIM, etc
Deadnaming and correctly sexing are verboten and (if reported - MN don’t generally read threads) will get your post deleted. 3 deletions in a short period of time will get you perma banned.
Check out the sticky.
Yes, we try and work around, and it’s clunky but means we can at least have the convo.
Check out the Spinster thread. You might find it interesting.