I don't know what butch is any more. I would never have thought that Katie Herzog is butch. It seems like what's 'normal' for women has moved to uber feminine?
I do find the whole idea of being butch and femme strange. Sometimes I wear trousers and a shirt, sometimes I wear a skirt (seldom, but sometimes it's the most comfortable thing to wear - like if it's raining, or very hot). Sometimes I have my hair long and sometimes I cut it really short (just short, not styled - I hate going to hairdressers so I just lop it off if it's annoying me). I borrow my husband's clothes and he sometimes borrows mine. How I happen to be dressed isn't an important part of my identity. Although when one of the women explained about the fact that she liked to be treated how men are treated, I did understand that.