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Caroline Farrow Support Thread

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GeordieGenes · 01/04/2019 23:05

Caroline, I am honestly almost in tears looking at your Twitter feed tonight. Sad

Her kids have been doxxed by the good doctor.

She is continuing to receive harassment from TRAs. Someone has just sent a pizza to her house.

We all need to get behind her. They think she's a weaker target because of her Catholic views, I'm sure. Let's get on Twitter and report everyone that is sending her abuse.

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littlbrowndog · 02/04/2019 15:49

Hayden openly calls this site on twitter nuttersnet

LimeKiwi · 02/04/2019 15:49

Lime if you're happy to be on the side of abusing, harassing and doxxing a mum then only you have to live with that.

Anyone abusing, harassing and doxxing anyone is awful, I'd never condone that whoever it's coming from
Mums are capable of harassing others as well though (mums in general) whether GC or not

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 02/04/2019 15:50

Freedom of expression is precious and I know every single one of us on MN hold it dear to our hearts.

You’re not one of ‘us’.
You don’t value freedom of expression or you wouldn’t attempt to sue people for ‘misgendering’. Not that that’s a thing.

SpartacusAutisticusAHF · 02/04/2019 15:50

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BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 02/04/2019 15:50

just wondering why the need to talk like a Jane Austen character

It’s how laydees talk doncherknow

And lawyers. They talk posh too, don’t they?

RedToothBrush · 02/04/2019 15:51

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Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 02/04/2019 15:51

Its like a tag team

ThatDoctorEM · 02/04/2019 15:52

All my support to you Caro.

Whats his name hunts you here and hunts you there. I'm sure many women recognise this type of behaviour and we feel for you. I'm sorry about all the abuse you are receiving and the escalation.

What an unsightly tantrum today.

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Carowiththegoodhair · 02/04/2019 15:54

Anyone abusing, harassing and doxxing anyone is awful, I'd never condone that whoever it's coming from
Mums are capable of harassing others as well though (mums in general) whether GC or not

True. And it’s a mum who has been complicit in this since the beginning. Which is why I have tried to focus more on the male accomplice. But when it started because the abuse was so intense and so full of gaslighting (first claiming to know the abuser personally and then claiming I had invented the persona to harass myself) I did google the handle in order to discover if it was a real person.

And since this person has for the best part of a year (since May 2018) devoted their entire Twitter feed to attacking me and the police will do nothing, it’s difficult to know how to respond.

Melroses · 02/04/2019 15:56

Brew Cake for Caro

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Melroses · 02/04/2019 15:57

Anger displacement?

littlbrowndog · 02/04/2019 15:57

Go to page 11 caro. Howling castle offered practical help

Datun · 02/04/2019 15:58

just wondering why the need to talk like a Jane Austen character

I know, right? Hayden and Harrop probably think they are showing some class, with all the embarrassing nonsense about bolly, Mayfair clubs and Wentworth.

And then you watch them on a video...

BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 02/04/2019 15:59

Their life has not turned out as planned that’s for sure. Clearly smart but their behaviour constantly sabotages their plans

It’s interesting to watch (from a distance)

nauticant · 02/04/2019 16:00

I can’t fully fathom it

Issues with their mummy. It seems to be a characteristic. And when they come across "non-compliant mummy", that can really get the rage going.

LimeKiwi · 02/04/2019 16:03

Not that that’s a thing

It is if it's done repeatedly, like on this thread, that's pretty harrassing in itself

Datun · 02/04/2019 16:03

That’s not haydon’s motivation though I don’t think. I can’t fully fathom it

Kiwi farms exposure of the five sock accounts goes a great deal towards explaining it.

And yes, it's exactly what you think.

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 02/04/2019 16:03

Bernard validation, I expect.

It's sad. I swing between anger at the fucking cheek of it, and real sadness because you can't ever have a life that's happy if you are lying to yourself all the time.

People born male are not the same as people born female, and nothing you take/wear/remove/attach/mimic will change that. It's a harsh, and deeply upsetting truth, but, it is true.

Do we still have ? Seems appropriate somehow.

Carowiththegoodhair · 02/04/2019 16:05

Also, many if not most of us, are mothers on here; some of us have birthed our children, others have adopted, fostered or been a step (bonus) mother. Some of us are grandmothers.

Stephanie’s bumptious legalese about the specifics doesn’t wash and their rhetoric about how undignified I was displays a concerning lack of empathy as does Harrop’s.

If you want to attack a mother, go after her children. We are mammals and most of us will viscerally and instinctively fight back when our offspring are threatened.

I didn’t accuse Dr Harrop of doxing my children, that was done by Stephanie’s accomplices. I do however accuse him of cyber-stalking because what reason does he have to be looking at my Insta and the fact that he managed to locate it in the brief window it was unlocked (when my dad complained on FB that he couldn’t access it) is extremely chilling. As is the fact that he knew when it closed. And who directed him to look at my Insta? Barrie Drewitt-Barlow who I blocked on there.

Still I hope he enjoyed my slimming world meals and random children photos.

Estcarpwitch · 02/04/2019 16:08

The interventions of the laydee made me really angry. Why harass a woman who is clearly at the end of her tether and in need of our support.
Why not attack kiwi farm who say a lot of things about the laydee and none of them are nice. Could it be that the laydee is cowardly and only picks on those that the laydee thinks are weak?

howlsmovingcastle84 · 02/04/2019 16:08

Go to page 11 caro. Howling castle offered practical help
Please reach out if needed. DH is dual qualified solicitor and barrister and fully GC! He's drafted legal letters for free for Mumsneters before. Any advice, questions, letters-just let us know!

MoltenLasagne · 02/04/2019 16:10

This is such a chilling read, it's quite shocking to see textbook behaviour displayed so clearly.

Caro I understand that you feel ignored and even victimised by your local police force, would it be possible to go to a neighbouring force to see if they'd take it more seriously? I don't know whether that's feasible but it is incredible to me that the police seem willing to write off investigating such blatant harassment.

KatvonHostileExtremist · 02/04/2019 16:13

www.rollonfriday.com/news-content/exclusive-transgender-lawyer-suing-graham-linehan-was-convicted-threatening-man-golf

Roll on Friday repeated the whole story of Stephos criminal past, but Stepho themselves, here in this thread said they wouldn't be sueing. Seems easier to go after an individual woman than a bunch of legal guys eh?

As for playground bullying, will you condemn the parody account attacking Caro? And your besties doubling down on it? Or is that all freedom of expression etc etc? Because I found that very playground.

And you STILL haven't shared your secrets about WHY you and harrop do golfing banter? Why talk about it in the context you are doing it.

Come on its clearly trolling mate. At the very least.

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