Long, but interesting and readable article, although the Jungian perspective might or might not be helpful...
www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00332925.2017.1350804
"Rather than doing away with the constrictions of gender, which limit and harm both men and women, transgender ideology serves to further reify these socially constructed stereotypes and roles and even to demand that we change our bodies in accordance with them. Instead, we ought to accept the material reality of the body while encouraging people to express themselves and their gendered feelings in whatever way they like. "
This.