we have a family wedding at Christmas and I need get something for my 1.5 year old girl and my 3.5 year old boy to wear. I don’t want to put her in a dress (I usually put them both in comfy soft trousers etc) and I don’t want to put him in a suit (don’t want him to be uncomfortable!). What can I dress them in that is still making an effort? I’m trying to treat them the same,no gender stereotypes etc.i probably sound crazy! TIA