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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

World at One , radio 4 NOW - is this Agnes (Helen)??

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steppemum · 24/09/2018 13:02

Programme just started - going to be talking to a guider kicked out for her view on trans?

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Datun · 24/09/2018 16:12

Sick to death of people like Susie Green going oh my God you are saying all trans girls are rapists.

When one girl a day is raped in school. 60% of girls report sexual harassment. And 25% of girls are too afraid to even speak in class, for fear they will be targeted.

So who is doing all this, Susie? The tooth fairy?

No one is saying all transgirls are rapists, no one. I will say they don't understand boundaries, though.

But there are an awful lot of boys, just like there are an awful lot of men, who are sexually targeting girls.

Quite apart from not allowing them access to these girls, these girls are already exposed to trauma. They are already in dire need of a female only space.

So fuck off with your deployment of emotional blackmail. We can all see through it.

Datun · 24/09/2018 16:12

Lilly Madigan sued their school for access to the girls' toilets. Can you imagine those girls?

TerfedOff · 24/09/2018 16:13

I dont even understand why they need to so this. Scouts is mixed sex. So any child confused about their gender identity would be better there.

boatyardblues · 24/09/2018 17:56

The acknowledged plan has always been to achieve this very quietly, behind the backs of the general public, so by the time they realise and kick off about it it's a done deal and enshrined in law. The general public knowing about it is a disaster, it gives them time and information to do things like express a democratic opinion or to mention their rights, or to put opposing points of view to law makers. Whittle would much rather they didn't. I would imagine the trans activists are pretty cross with GGUK for not waiting until 20 October to expel Helen.

NothingOnTellyAgain · 24/09/2018 18:19

TerfedOff - basically - because why the fuck should girls be allowed to have / do things for themselves, that some boys want to do? Why the fuck should boys who would rather be with the girls doing whatever, and for whatever reason, be excluded? It's sexist. And mean. The purpose of girls and women is to be whatever men/boys want them to be and do whatever men /boys want them to do. As inferior 2D props, they have no right to refuse and in fact anything other than immediate smiling capitulation is seen as an outrageously aggressive affront. Business as usual in a male supremecist world, basically.

AgnesBadenPowell · 24/09/2018 18:22

I missed this thread at the time. Thanks for your support everyone. Yes it was me.

The interview was recorded about an hour before it went out (I've been in the famous radio 4 radio car!) which is why there was no direct interaction. I had no idea that Susie Green would be my "opponent", they didn't tell me beforehand.

I think it worked well. I'm really not interested in getting into a bun fight on air. I am raising serious safeguarding and governance concerns around a sensitive and divisive issue. This isn't filler material for a magazine show, or entertainment. By being interviewed separately on heavyweight news programmes I've been better able to make my point.

Shame the GG or indeed any other child protection or safeguarding charity won't speak publicly. This isn't really a trans issue after all, it's about girls rights.

loveyouradvice · 24/09/2018 18:39

FlowersFlowersFlowers and a stiff Gin or whatever your tipple is Agnes.... Helen you seriously are A HERO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Fabulous you are doing this... and Im hoping others are going to ask to interview you? If so, Are you able to ask them to request an interview with the Guides too? And let them know how important it is that the Guides' voice is heard so that they can reassure the however million girls it is that they have thought this through and explain their impact assessment.... or not! At the very least, this would mean journalists could report tht the Girl Guides refused to discuss this issue which they found very disturbing. Of course you may already be doing this in which case Im sorry: you are in the enviable position of journalists listening to you and wanting a story - and building those friendships/relationships which mean they might listen to you about what else to write about

ImPreCis · 24/09/2018 19:14

Agnes you came across so well. It was wonderful to be able to hear you speak, without interruption. You are an absolute shero and should be at the top of the list for a female award. I look forward to hearing your acceptance speech. (Do not feel obliged to wear a shocking pink dress for the awards ceremony!😀)

hackmum · 24/09/2018 19:19

When it comes down to it, it’s a really simple issue. There are obvious safeguarding reasons why you don’t allow teenage boys to share a tent with teenage girls. You don’t need to spell them out. The only reason a dispute arises is because people like Susie Green are pretending that some teenage boys are really girls.

bzzbeebzz · 24/09/2018 19:27

Helen just wanted to let you know you have singlehandedly and instantly peakytransed my parents. Thanks.

Ikeasucks · 24/09/2018 20:15

I didn’t understand SG’s insistence that one groups right shouldn’t be over ridden by another groups - surely that goes equally for trans rights trampling over women/girls rights.

OrchidInTheSun · 24/09/2018 20:20

It doesn't make any sense IKEA. She wants transgirl rights to supersede girls' rights. There is no way that the current policy balances rights.

Scouts have a much better way of managing mixed sex situations

Knicknackpaddyflak · 24/09/2018 20:31

It's the privilege thing. This quote about trans people can't rape - it looks insane. But the ideology sees trans people as so oppressed that it is society's job to prioritise them above everything like normal standards and regulations, and above all other people - as we see, sod harming girls and women, sod excluding faith groups, using disabled facilities, the very act of questioning it is seen as transphobia. I was baffled for years why a trans member of a group I ran went apeshit at me for transphobia because I asked them not to do something against the rules of the group. They said flat out that they should have been a special exemption - which I didn't get at all. But when you see it through this madly distorted lens, it makes sense. Unfortunately for the ideology the bottom line is no. Trans people cannot be more important than everyone else, they cannot be exempted from law and standard regulations (free all trans prisoners), they cannot have extraordinary rights that no one else has and that actively remove rights from others. Particularly when these extraordinary rights are expected to be extended unconditionally to any person who requests them, some of whom at the highest levels of this movement are demonstrating that they are motivated by their personal paraphilias, sexual offending, extreme hatred of and a desire to subjugate women, incel beliefs and MRA activism to name just a few. Harming women and children as a means of redressing perceived disadvantage - and its interesting that the loudest voices here are from predominantly white, middle class, highly educated and privileged men - is not an acceptable proposition. And yes, women do get a say.

Knicknackpaddyflak · 24/09/2018 20:32

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World at One , radio 4 NOW - is this Agnes (Helen)??
Neolara · 24/09/2018 22:06

Who on earth wrote that bit about trans people not being able to rape? That is a quite extraordinarily fucked up viewpoint on so many levels.

SausageOnAFork · 24/09/2018 22:14

Sick to death of people like Susie Green going oh my God you are saying all trans girls are rapists.. Quite. No one is saying that. Not all penis owners are rapists but all rapists are penis owners. Dress it up how you like but you can’t change that.

SausageOnAFork · 24/09/2018 22:15

a forced sex survivors Christ alive are we not even allowed the word rape anymore?

HawkeyeInConfusion · 24/09/2018 22:17

Wtf is that knicknack? Trans people can't rape? They can only force-sex (which apparently isn't rape). I'm struggling to articulate how disturbing and frightening that viewpoint is.

Knicknackpaddyflak · 24/09/2018 22:37

Me too Hawkeye This is how totally divorced from reality the political ideology is. And the degree of exemption and subjugation it assumes as it's right. It's bloody scary stuff.

Knicknackpaddyflak · 24/09/2018 22:41

I saw the screenshot online Neolara , it's often quoted in articles around the place and is easily Googlable, this is one of them: me.me/i/tweet-transgender-uber-alles-trans-people-are-never-rapists-rape-has-to-18252910

HawkeyeInConfusion · 24/09/2018 22:59

I think that needs its own thread knicknack. It is a horrifying attitude. I guess it might be the view of one deranged %*#+& (I can't think of a suitable/non-ban-worthy noun) rather than a widespread view. But I wouldn't like to bank on it.

Floisme · 24/09/2018 23:04

Never mind its own thread - that statement needs its own billboard.

GlomOfNit · 24/09/2018 23:17

Fantastic piece, Helen. Bloody well done! Flowers

LazySundayMornings · 24/09/2018 23:22

It's not just a one-off individual, it's a view I've seen elsewhere. This is a very illuminating blog from an ex-transman which includes accounts of rape and violence within the transactivist/queer community.
The author describes a rapist in the community expressing this view: 4thwavenow.com/2016/04/27/shrinking-to-survive-a-former-trans-man-reports-on-life-inside-queer-youth-culture/

NothingOnTellyAgain · 25/09/2018 11:37

There is someone (transwoman) who got invited to speak at one of the womens marches in USA who wrote themselves about how they had vaginally raped a transman with their penis with the intent of causing pregnancy.

The attitude to sexual abuse / assault of cunty people by dicky people continues as usual (poor me, I was confused, she made me do it, I couldn't help it, i deserve sympathy etc etc)

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