'Penis fetishist'

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Lesbians are being labelled 'vagina fetishists'. Are straight women being labelled 'penis fetishists'?

They're very open about the "but you haven't tried MY dick!". See here: averyedison.com/rightbodywrongjunk/files/Right_Body_Wrong_Junk_Avery_Edison.html

"Look, it's not like I require the women I date to be cool with having my dick inside them. In fact, I'm fine if that never happens. But being shut off from the very idea of it, not even considering that having my penis inside you is different from having a man's penis inside you? That hurts. It's such tiny slight that I wish I could get over it, and not let it fester into something I feel the need to write an essay about, but apparently I can't." Disgusting.

I think gay men are starting to get some of this directed at them too, though with less abuse than women are being met with. Hence the recent articles by gay men. The only straight example I've come across of that was that thing on Big Brother.

yes, actually, surely it's the people who claim to be women but want to keep their penises who are penis fetishists

So ridiculous and so cruel.... seriously "Vagina fetishist"?? I know they do it... but if you called a bunch of hetero men that they would laugh you out of court....

So so tough being a lesbian at the moment

I mean, the real irony is the fact that trans people who don't do dick aren't being targeted with threats, slandered as bigoted or called hateful "vagina fetishists."
Odd that once again trans activists are saying there is no difference between females and trans women, yet TRAs always seem to know which group needs to be singled for targeted for harassment with "accept my penis or else!"
Hint: it's always the people born with vaginas.

"But being shut off from the very idea of it, not even considering that having my penis inside you is different from having a man's penis inside you? "

I mean this is just drivel isn't it.
A dick is a dick is a dick.

Note the idea of calling dick "strapless" >> the argument goes if a woman is happy being fucked with a strap on, why not a strapless?

Also the people who refer to their penis as a clitoris ]

And so much of it is about sex sex sex dick dick dick sex oh do you want to see my dick ? why not you meany are you bigoted frigid etc etc etc >> same old same old really isn't it.

It's the exact same arguments that lesbians have heard since the dawn of time, I am sure.
With an extra layer of coercion, because of the social exclusion from the very community meant to support lesbians, erosion of what it means to be a same-sex attracted female, loss of lesbian focused spaces, and actual violent threats.
No wonder lesbian radical feminists were some of the first to pick up on the implications of trans activism.
It's truly shocking nobody within the LGBTQ++++ has been listening to them.

I wonder if it's ever occurred to Riley and co that some lesbians may be rejecting the characters of the people trying to coerce them into trying their dicks even more than they're actually rejecting the dicks?

jasminemaya There have been several threads about the 'cotton ceiling', as TRA's call it. It's not just one post from 2016.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3294339-cotton-ceiling-evidence-thread?msgid=79094964

Yes! Errol, it must just be the ladydick lesbians reject, it couldn't possibly be the brave and stunning creepy fucker that has a ladydick, could it?

I suppose if any transpeople were going to accuse straight women of being penis fetishists, it would be TMs rejected by het women. After all, TWs aren't interested in having sex with het women, as doing so doesn't validate them.

“Jesus my husband would only dream of me being a penis fetishist.”

Ha! Mine too! But I don’t think I would have fancied him if he didn’t have one.

So ridiculous and so cruel.... seriously "Vagina fetishist"?? I know they do it... but if you called a bunch of hetero men that they would laugh you out of court....

They'd probably argue that they're actually breast fetishists, or leg fetishists, or bum fetishists...

(Lots of men seem to be attracted to women while insisting that vaginas as disgusting, because misogyny. I'd suggest not having sex with those men.)

2nd rule of misogyny: Women saying no to men is a hate crime.

One thing I am absolutely sure of, I would never, ever, ever consider a transman to be a potential sexual partner. I love my own vagina, I think women are beautiful but I could not have sex with someone with female genitals no matter what the rest of the body looked like. And a fake unusable penis is a complete no-go for me.

There are too many hypocritical transwomen who are bullying women into accepting them as "lesbian" partners when they won't accept each other. (LM doesn't like penises apparently)

Let's face it, if you aren't fanciable as one "gender", and gender is your "inner essence", why would that inner essence be any more attractive as the other gender? It's almost as if your personality has something to do with attracting people as much as physical looks.

Actually I have Mrs Merton's voice in my head asking Debbie McGee what first attracted her to millionaire Paul Daniels...