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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I peak transed 3 people yesterday by....

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Lottapianos · 09/07/2018 08:05

....telling them about the Get The L Out protest and the demands from some TAs that lesbians must be prepared to have sex with transwomen who have penises. They were my male DP, a gay male friend and a straight female friend. All were Shock. My DP has always been a bit 'nod and smile' when I've talked about trans stuff in the past but he was FUMING about this. So hurray for that

The conversation included gender neutral toilets and here my gay male friend really disappointed me. He couldn't see the problem because
A) you all use cubicles anyway so no one can see what you're doing in there
And
B) you get pervy women too you know!

No. Just no. And even he couldn't argue that male bodies in a female changing room would be fine and dandy

Onwards and upwards, people

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Bespin · 09/07/2018 08:09

Well done make sure you report it to head office so they can plot it in the map. also remember on ya sixth one you are entitled to a free coffee on. Julia lang 😊

LangCleg · 09/07/2018 08:37

I think this protest is proving to be another cold shower that wakes a lot of people up. I only use Facebook for saying hello to my aunties once a week and organising family dos but even my feed is full of people saying "Eh? Pride tried to chuck women out for saying lesbians = female homosexuals? What the what?"

LangCleg · 09/07/2018 08:38

(Why are you posting random non sequiturs everywhere today, Bespin? Did I miss something on another thread? Is there a joke I'm not in on? I'm confused.)

Lottapianos · 09/07/2018 08:39

I agree LangCleg. I think a lot of the public have no clue what's going on, and are suitably horrified as they find out

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Melanippe · 09/07/2018 08:43

Bespin, I have no idea how Julia LONG will manage to pay for all those thousands of coffees seeing as your compatriots are attempting to get her fired/imprisoned/beaten to an absolute pulp.

Maybe we should set up a GoFundMe?

starcrossedseahorse · 09/07/2018 08:56

Lottapianos I think that shit that happened at Pride will have peaked a few thousand people but the reporting was so biased so who knows?

Clear arguments and common sense will hopefully win the day because all these arseholes have in their locker is abuse and threats when it comes down to it.

LaSqrrl · 09/07/2018 08:57

you get pervy women too you know!

Ewww, projection much? And always holla out when you go into the women's bathrooms at a gay bar. Not nice surprises await otherwise.

I really HATE the trope that lesbians are 'pervy' and predatory in women's spaces. Not so. Keep your projection to yourselves dudes.

LaSqrrl · 09/07/2018 08:59

She is Julia LONG, bespin.
Get it right, 'bepenis'

Joking to make a point.

SpareRibFem · 09/07/2018 09:18

you get pervy women too you know Angry

Like many posters here I'm not young and I have never once felt uncomfortable with a lesbian with a female lesbian that is

I was confused during the #metoo disclosures, how did some women remember that level of detail for men acting inappropriately? I remember the worst but there's been so so many occasions when men have made me feel uncomfortable due to the way they have acted or what they have said.

I've had disagreements with women, had at least one female boss I profoundly disliked, really not keen on some of the stepford wives I know but never has a woman acted in a way that made me feel sexually uncomfortable even inadvertently

So technically what your friend said is true but so rare the majority of us have never encountered a pervy woman and yet most of us can't count the number of (unwilling) encounters we've had with pervy men.

Bespin · 09/07/2018 09:26

I know you have one miss type and everyone's a critic int that right LaSqrrl I can not believe you can not spell my. name right

LeiaTheSlaya · 09/07/2018 09:53

I really HATE the trope that lesbians are 'pervy' and predatory in women's spaces.

YY. 45 years on the planet & not once have I ever come across a woman/lesbian who made me feel uncomfortable. I've lost count of the number of men who have. I'm sure someone will be along to describe a scenario where a lesbian has made them uncomfortable but I think given the stats on sexually motivated crimes & the number of women I know/have spoken to/post on social media saying what I've said, the numbers in comparison to men are vanishingly small.

Pythagonal · 09/07/2018 10:05

Aw, Bespin, what's the matter with you - can't you take a joke? It's only a bit of banter, after all...

Bespin · 09/07/2018 10:17

Pythagonal did you not pick up my bantery reply to the post lol

theknackster · 09/07/2018 10:39

The most 'woke' colleague in the office was 'peak transed' by the reaction to the Pride 'protest'. The very idea that 'lesbian' is not equal to 'female homosexual' Does. Not. Compute.

ElenOfTheWays · 09/07/2018 11:32

The biggest problem is that it's being spun as "TERFS disrupt Pride to spread anti trans hate".
When it's pointed out that the truth is "LESBIANS protest the cotton ceiling at pride" people do tend to see it a little differently.

rhebarb · 09/07/2018 13:24

Also, if women are pervy then why would men want them in their toilets?

Oh wait that's the fantasy. Got it.

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